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FILM TRAILER : WAKILI Movie staring:- Suleman bosho,Ali nuhu,Hadiza Gabon,Aisha Tsamiya, Aminu Momo and Other's

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<div dir="ltr">Wakili__ in cinema July 12, 2019. Sulaiman Yahya Bosho, Ali Nuhu, Hadiza Aliyu Gabon, Aminu Shariff Momo, Aisha Aliyu Tsamiya, Garzali Miko, Haraja Isah, Tijjani Asase, Rabi'u Daushe, Mustapha Nabraska, Umar Gombe, Khadija Princess, Hadiza Kabara, Ibrahim Dandolo, Nasiru Horo, zarah Muhammad, Hauwa Ayawa and Falalu A. Dorayi</div>
<div dir="ltr">Mun dauko muku wannan talla daga shafin Youtube din falalu dorayi.</div>
<div dir="ltr">Ayi kallo lafiya.</div>
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FILM TRAILER : WAKILI Movie staring:- Suleman bosho,Ali nuhu,Hadiza Gabon,Aisha Tsamiya, Aminu Momo and Other's

Wakili__ in cinema July 12, 2019. Sulaiman Yahya Bosho, Ali Nuhu, Hadiza Aliyu Gabon, Aminu Shariff Momo, Aisha Aliyu Tsamiya, Garzali Miko, Haraja Isah, Tijjani Asase, Rabi'u Daushe, Mustapha Nabras…

Manya-manyan kura-kurai da ma'aurata ke yi ba su sani ba

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Aure na iya zama abu mafi kololuwar jin dadi da walwala a rayuwar dan Adam, a wasu lokuttan kuma ya kan zama tamkar mutum na zaune a gidan yari ne wani sa'ilin ma na gidan yari yafi ka kwanciyar hankali. Hakan duk ya ta'allaka ne da waye ka aura.<br />
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A wannan zamani da mu ke ciki, aure ya zama abinda ya zama a Arewa. Yawaitar mutuwar aure kullum kara yawa ya ke. Har ta kai ana iya aure wata daya a rabu.<br />
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Akwai abubuwa masu dadi a rayuwar aure, musamman ka tuna cewa wannan na zaba a matsayin aboki ko abokiyar rayuwata. Sannan akwai kalubale da ke fuskantar aure wanda sai an taru gaba daya wajen tunkarar sa.<br />
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 Da yawa a tunanin su rayuwar aure, rayuwa ce ta jin dadi da more rayuwa na dindindin, sai dai bayan shigar su sai su iske abun ba haka bane.<br />
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Masana sun nuna cewa rayuwar aure gaba dayanta wata makaranta ce mai zaman kanta, ba wai makarantar je ka ka dawo ba, a'a makaranta ce da ba'a fita cikinta.<br />
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Akwai kura-kurai da ma'aurata kan aikata wadanda ke jawo matsaloli a rayuwar aure, wanda wasu basu dauke su a bakin komai ba, daga karshe kuma kan iya jawo mutuwar aure.<br />
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Daukar juna ba a bakin komai ba<br />
Da yawan ma'aurata ganin an kwana biyu tare, an saba da juna sai ya zama kar ta san kar ne, su kan manta da abubuwan da kan kara ma zamantakewar su armashi.<br />
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Zai zamo mace duk abinda mijinta zai yi ba za ta ga bajintar shi ba, tana ganin ai dolen shine dan haka ba ta ga abin yabawa ba. Haka ta bangaren maza ma, babu wannan yabawar tsakaninsu da matansu.<br />
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Yana da kyau komin kankantar abu da miji ko mata ta/ya yi, a yaba a kuma gode. Hakan zai kara karfafa wa mutum. Idan girki tayi, kamata yayi ka gode ma ta, tare da kwarzanta abincinta, haka bangaren kwalliya ma. Shiyasa wasu matan da sunyi aure, duk wata kwalliya sai su zubar saboda mazajensu ba sa yabawa.<br />
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Haka ta bangaren hidimar gida, ya kamata mata su rika yabawa mazajensu duk da cewa hakkinsu ne su dauki nauyin iyalansu, amma yana da kyau a gode mu su. Hakan zai kara mu su karfin gwiwa.<br />
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Mai karatu na iya duba wannan makala da ta yi karin haske wa irin halaye da yanayi da mata ke so wurin mazajensu.<br />
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Dogon buri<br />
Da yawan maza da mata kan shiga gidajen auren su da dogon buri, suna tunanin babu komai a cikin rayuwar aure face jin dadi. Sun dauka irin rayuwar fina-finai ce da abubuwa na jin dadi da suke gani. Sai dai kash, rayuwa ce mai tattare da kalubale, wata rana zuma wata rana madaci.<br />
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Dogon burin da ake shiga da shi na daga cikin manyan kura-kurai da ma'aurata ke tafkawa. Sai bayan an shiga a ga akasin abinda ake tsammani, wanda wasu idan an yi sa'a su kan yi hakuri da abinda suka iske, wasu kuwa a lokacin ne fitintinu za su yi ta bullowa.<br />
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Ya zama wajibi ga ma'aurata su cire dogon buri a rayuwar aurensu, su rungumi abinda suka tarar da hannu biyu da yaƙinin cewa canji na faruwa ne daga kan mutum, sannan daya ya yi adapting da canjin.<br />
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Kasancewar aboki ko abokiyar rayuwar da wani nakasu a rayuwa ba shi ke nuna cewa rayuwar zamantakewa ta ruguje ba. Kowane dan adam tara yake bai cika goma ba. Haka kowane rayuwar aure bai cika dari bisa dari ba, dole a samu tawaya ta wani bangaren.<br />
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Rashin hakuri<br />
Gaba daya rayuwar aure yar hakuri ce, sannan hakuri shine ribar zaman duniya.<br />
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Muna cikin wani zamani da ma'aurata kamar jiran juna su ke, kowane a wuya yake danuwarsa ya yi abu ya zama abin fada da cece-kuce.<br />
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Kowane ma'aurata suna samun sabani a tsakanin junansu, sai dai mi? Wasu kan yi kokari wajen ganin sun gano bakin zare ta hanyar warware matsalolinsu ta hanyar lumana.<br />
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Wasu kuwa a lokacin ne zage-zage, buge-buge da bakaken maganganu ke kunno kai. Daga nan sai wutar ta kara ruruwa, har ta kai ga abinda ba a so.<br />
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Wasu ma'auratan koda su ne da laifi ya kan zama abu mai matukar wahala su bude baki su bada hakuri. Daga nan sai gardama ta biyo baya. Ko dan zaman lafiya bada hakuri na kashe wutar fitina.<br />
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Mantawa da yanda za a so juna<br />
 Daga zarar anyi aure, duk soyayyar da aka tafka a baya sai ta zama tarihi. Babu sauran soyayya da an yi aure komai ya zama tarihi.<br />
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Yana daya daga cikin kura-kuran da ma'aurata ke yi, bayan aure ne ya kamata a ce soyayya ta kara karfafa, ba kafin aure ba.<br />
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Kowane bangaren mace ko namiji suna da tasu matsalolin. Duk auren da babu soyayya a cikin sa to lallai yana cikin halin rayuwa ko mutuwa.<br />
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Rayuwar aure ce ya kamata a kawata ta da duk wasu kalaman soyayya, kulawa da kyautatawa, sai dai akasin da ake samu na komi ya zama tarihi. Yana daya daga cikin kura-kurai dake kawo mutuwar aure.<br />
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Karanta makamancin wannan makala: Alamomi goma dake nuna cewa soyayya ta kare tsakanin ki da shi<br />
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Sako wasu cikin al'amuran ku<br />
Shigowa da wasu mutane cikin matsalolin aure yana daya daga cikin ababen da ke jawo matsala a rayuwar aure. Wasu ma'auratan na da dabi'ar kai kukan abokan zaman su ga wasu, wala Allah abokai ne, yan uwa ko iyaye a kan abinda bai taka kara ya karya ba.<br />
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Irin hakan na rusa aure gaba dayan shi, saboda wadanda ka kai wa karar da irin tunaninsu a kan matsalar da kuke fuskanta.<br />
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Shigowar "third party" a zamantakewa na kawo mutuwar aure.<br />
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Akwai matsalolin da zama daya za ku yi ku warware matsalarku ba tare da wani ya ji ko ya gani ba. Hakan zai taimaka wajen kawo karshen wasu matsalolin.<br />
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Ya kamata ma'aurata su koyi warware matsalolinsu a tsakanin su ba tare da sun fitar da shi waje ba. Hakan zai kara mu su kusanci a Tsakani saboda sun dau juna a matsayin abokai da za su iya zama su tattauna matsalolinsu, sannan su kuma san hanyoyin warware su ba tare da wani ko wata ya shigo cikin lamarin auren ku.<br />
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Rashin ba ma juna lokaci<br />
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Daga zarar anyi aure an fara tara iyali kowa ta kanshi yake babu wani sauran bama juna lokaci. Irin wannan ya fi faruwa ga mata, lokacinsu kacokam na yaransu ne. Miji da yayi magana za su yi korafin kula da yara da kuma aikace-aikacen gida.<br />
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Wasu mazan kuwa aikinsu ya fiye mu su zama da iyalansu har ta kai su na dawowa da aikin office gida.<br />
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Daga an gama an gaji sai bacci, babu wani lokaci da ma'auratan suka ware dan tattaunawa da kuma kara kusanci da junansu.<br />
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Hakan na saurin kashe aure, sai ka ji mata na maganar "zaman yarana nake, zaman hakuri nake".<br />
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Yanke hukunci ba tare da jin ta bakin daya bangaren ba<br />
Yarda da juna ta sa kuka aminta da junanku a karkashin inuwa daya, babban kuskure daya bangare ya yanke hukunci ba tare da jin ta bakin dayan ba. Shawara na da dadi musamman ma ga ma'aurata, ya kamata su rika shawartar junansu wajen zartar da harkokin rayuwarsu.<br />
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Hakan zai sa miji ko mata ganin an girmama su, tunda har za a nemi shawara a wajen su. Hakan na nuna tsantsar yarda da aminta da juna.<br />
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Rashin yin hakan ka iya jawo zargi ko wasiwasi a zuciyar daya, ganin kamar babu yarda a tsakani.<br />
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Rashin nuna gaskiya<br />
Wannan na daya daga cikin manyan matsalolin da ke addabar aure a wannan zamanin, duba da shigowar kafofin sada zumunta da za a samu har matan aure nayi.<br />
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Ba kowane namiji bane kan aminta matar shi ta shiga Social media ba. Haka mata ma kullum cikin zargin mazajensu suke a dalilin hakan.<br />
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Babban abinda zamantakewarsu ta rasa shine rashin gaskiya. Idan har kun gini soyayyarku akan gaskiya da wuya irin wadannan ababen su jawo maku fitina a rayuwar aurenku.<br />
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Ko ina namiji ko mace zasu kasance kowane bangare na yi wa dan uwanshi kyakkyawar zato. Rashin hakan ya kawo silar mutuwar aurarraki da dama. Duk abinda ma'aurata zasu yi, su yi shi a kan gaskiya da kuma rikon amana.<br />
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Rashin tsayawa juna<br />
A duk inda ma'aurata suke ya kamata su tsayawa junansu komin wuya komin dadi. Su zama kafadar jingina ga junansu wajen share hawayen junansu, sai dai mi? Wasu in dai matsala ko damuwa ba tasu ba ce ba, to hakan bai dame su ba, wannan halin ko in kula da su ke nunawa juna na kashe karsashin soyayya, sai ya zama idan shawara ko wata matsala suke ciki maimakon su tuntubi juna sai su kai damuwar su wani waje daban.<br />
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Mai karat una iya duba makamancin wannan makala da ta yi nazari bisa alfanu da rashin alfanun bestie a tsakanin jinsi biyu<br />
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Kwatantawa kowa muhallinsa<br />
Wasu kan yi kuskure barin kowa na tsoma baki a rayuwar aurensu. Misali mijin da zai rika bari abokan shi na tsara mi shi yanda zai tafiyar da gidanshi, ko mace kawayenta su tsara ma ta, koma iyaye su rika tsoma baki a rayuwar yaransu.<br />
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Miji ko mata dole ne ku nunawa kowanne matsayinsa a rayuwarku da irin muhimmancin da yake da shi, gudun kawo hargitsi a rayuwar aurenku.<br />
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Amma matukar aka bar kowa na tsoma baki hakan ba karamin tasiri yake wajen wargaza zaman lafiyar ma'aurata ba.<br />
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Daga karshe, za mu iya cewa wadannan suna daga cikin manyan kura-kurai da ma’aurata ke yi. Ba kuma sukenan ba. Idan akwai wasu da kuke ganin ya dace si shiga wannan lisaafi<br />
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Manya-manyan kura-kurai da ma'aurata ke yi ba su sani ba

Aure na iya zama abu mafi kololuwar jin dadi da walwala a rayuwar dan Adam, a wasu lokuttan kuma ya kan zama tamkar mutum na zaune a gidan yari ne wani sa'ilin ma na gidan yari yafi ka kwanciyar hank…

Rashin miji ne ya hanani yin aure –Maryam Yahaya

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A wata hira da Freedom Radio tayi da jaruma Maryam Yahaya ta bayyana dalilin da ya hanata yin aure inda tace “da aure da mutuwa duk lokacine, idan lokacina yayi ai zan daga, babu mijinne, ku fito ku aureni, rashin miji ne ya hanani yin aure, kun san maza na wuya yanzu”<br />
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Jaruma Maryam Yahaya ta kara da cewa ta cimma nasarori da dama a sana’arta ta film wanda ba zasu kirgu ba, kuma babu abinda zata cewa masana’antar fina-finan hausa sai godiya, a bangaren kalubale kuwa Maryam tace babban kalubalen da ta fuskanta shine da farko iyayenta basu amince ta shiga film din ba, a lokacin da ita kuma tana matukar son ganin ta shiga, sai dai a karshe fitaccen jaruminnan Ali Nuhu yaje wurin mahaifinta ya tambayeshi sannan ya barta ta fara film<br />
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Rashin miji ne ya hanani yin aure –Maryam Yahaya

A wata hira da Freedom Radio tayi da jaruma Maryam Yahaya ta bayyana dalilin da ya hanata yin aure inda tace “da aure da mutuwa duk lokacine, idan lokacina yayi ai zan daga, babu mijinne, ku fito ku …

Kalli Zafaffan Hotunan Nafisa Abdullahi Yar Kwalisa

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Jaruma nafisa Abdullahi itama tana daga cikin manya jaruman kannywood wanda har a yanzu suke haskakawa a masana'antar.<br />
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Kalli Zafaffan Hotunan Nafisa Abdullahi Yar Kwalisa

Jaruma nafisa Abdullahi itama tana daga cikin manya jaruman kannywood wanda har a yanzu suke haskakawa a masana'antar. ©HausaLoaded …

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<div>Aure na iya zama abu mafi kololuwar jin dadi da walwala a rayuwar dan Adam, a wasu lokuttan kuma ya kan zama tamkar mutum na zaune a gidan yari ne wani sa'ilin ma na gidan yari yafi ka kwanciyar hankali. Hakan duk ya ta'allaka ne da waye ka aura. </div>
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<div>A wannan zamani da mu ke ciki, aure ya zama abinda ya zama a Arewa. Yawaitar mutuwar aure kullum kara yawa ya ke. Har ta kai ana iya aure wata daya a rabu. </div>
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<div>Akwai abubuwa masu dadi a rayuwar aure, musamman ka tuna cewa wannan na zaba a matsayin aboki ko abokiyar rayuwata. Sannan akwai kalubale da ke fuskantar aure wanda sai an taru gaba daya wajen tunkarar sa. </div>
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<div> Da yawa a tunanin su rayuwar aure, rayuwa ce ta jin dadi da more rayuwa na dindindin, sai dai bayan shigar su sai su iske abun ba haka bane. </div>
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<div>Masana sun nuna cewa rayuwar aure gaba dayanta wata makaranta ce mai zaman kanta, ba wai makarantar je ka ka dawo ba, a'a makaranta ce da ba'a fita cikinta. </div>
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<div>Akwai kura-kurai da ma'aurata kan aikata wadanda ke jawo matsaloli a rayuwar aure, wanda wasu basu dauke su a bakin komai ba, daga karshe kuma kan iya jawo mutuwar aure.</div>
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<div>Daukar juna ba a bakin komai ba </div>
<div>Da yawan ma'aurata ganin an kwana biyu tare, an saba da juna sai ya zama kar ta san kar ne, su kan manta da abubuwan da kan kara ma zamantakewar su armashi. </div>
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<div>Zai zamo mace duk abinda mijinta zai yi ba za ta ga bajintar shi ba, tana ganin ai dolen shine dan haka ba ta ga abin yabawa ba. Haka ta bangaren maza ma, babu wannan yabawar tsakaninsu da matansu.</div>
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<div>Yana da kyau komin kankantar abu da miji ko mata ta/ya yi, a yaba a kuma gode. Hakan zai kara karfafa wa mutum. Idan girki tayi, kamata yayi ka gode ma ta, tare da kwarzanta abincinta, haka bangaren kwalliya ma. Shiyasa wasu matan da sunyi aure, duk wata kwalliya sai su zubar saboda mazajensu ba sa yabawa. </div>
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<div>Haka ta bangaren hidimar gida, ya kamata mata su rika yabawa mazajensu duk da cewa hakkinsu ne su dauki nauyin iyalansu, amma yana da kyau a gode mu su. Hakan zai kara mu su karfin gwiwa.</div>
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<div>Mai karatu na iya duba wannan makala da ta yi karin haske wa irin halaye da yanayi da mata ke so wurin mazajensu.</div>
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<div>Dogon buri </div>
<div>Da yawan maza da mata kan shiga gidajen auren su da dogon buri, suna tunanin babu komai a cikin rayuwar aure face jin dadi. Sun dauka irin rayuwar fina-finai ce da abubuwa na jin dadi da suke gani. Sai dai kash, rayuwa ce mai tattare da kalubale, wata rana zuma wata rana madaci.</div>
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<div>Dogon burin da ake shiga da shi na daga cikin manyan kura-kurai da ma'aurata ke tafkawa. Sai bayan an shiga a ga akasin abinda ake tsammani, wanda wasu idan an yi sa'a su kan yi hakuri da abinda suka iske, wasu kuwa a lokacin ne fitintinu za su yi ta bullowa. </div>
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<div>Ya zama wajibi ga ma'aurata su cire dogon buri a rayuwar aurensu, su rungumi abinda suka tarar da hannu biyu da yaƙinin cewa canji na faruwa ne daga kan mutum, sannan daya ya yi adapting da canjin. </div>
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<div>Kasancewar aboki ko abokiyar rayuwar da wani nakasu a rayuwa ba shi ke nuna cewa rayuwar zamantakewa ta ruguje ba. Kowane dan adam tara yake bai cika goma ba. Haka kowane rayuwar aure bai cika dari bisa dari ba, dole a samu tawaya ta wani bangaren. </div>
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<div>Rashin hakuri </div>
<div>Gaba daya rayuwar aure yar hakuri ce, sannan hakuri shine ribar zaman duniya. </div>
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<div>Muna cikin wani zamani da ma'aurata kamar jiran juna su ke, kowane a wuya yake danuwarsa ya yi abu ya zama abin fada da cece-kuce. </div>
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<div>Kowane ma'aurata suna samun sabani a tsakanin junansu, sai dai mi? Wasu kan yi kokari wajen ganin sun gano bakin zare ta hanyar warware matsalolinsu ta hanyar lumana. </div>
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<div>Wasu kuwa a lokacin ne zage-zage, buge-buge da bakaken maganganu ke kunno kai. Daga nan sai wutar ta kara ruruwa, har ta kai ga abinda ba a so. </div>
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<div>Wasu ma'auratan koda su ne da laifi ya kan zama abu mai matukar wahala su bude baki su bada hakuri. Daga nan sai gardama ta biyo baya. Ko dan zaman lafiya bada hakuri na kashe wutar fitina.</div>
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<div>Mantawa da yanda za a so juna</div>
<div> Daga zarar anyi aure, duk soyayyar da aka tafka a baya sai ta zama tarihi. Babu sauran soyayya da an yi aure komai ya zama tarihi.</div>
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<div>Yana daya daga cikin kura-kuran da ma'aurata ke yi, bayan aure ne ya kamata a ce soyayya ta kara karfafa, ba kafin aure ba.</div>
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<div>Kowane bangaren mace ko namiji suna da tasu matsalolin. Duk auren da babu soyayya a cikin sa to lallai yana cikin halin rayuwa ko mutuwa.</div>
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<div>Rayuwar aure ce ya kamata a kawata ta da duk wasu kalaman soyayya, kulawa da kyautatawa, sai dai akasin da ake samu na komi ya zama tarihi. Yana daya daga cikin kura-kurai dake kawo mutuwar aure.</div>
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<div>Sako wasu cikin al'amuran ku</div>
<div>Shigowa da wasu mutane cikin matsalolin aure yana daya daga cikin ababen da ke jawo matsala a rayuwar aure. Wasu ma'auratan na da dabi'ar kai kukan abokan zaman su ga wasu, wala Allah abokai ne, yan uwa ko iyaye a kan abinda bai taka kara ya karya ba.</div>
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<div>Irin hakan na rusa aure gaba dayan shi, saboda wadanda ka kai wa karar da irin tunaninsu a kan matsalar da kuke fuskanta.</div>
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<div>Shigowar "third party" a zamantakewa na kawo mutuwar aure.</div>
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<div>Akwai matsalolin da zama daya za ku yi ku warware matsalarku ba tare da wani ya ji ko ya gani ba. Hakan zai taimaka wajen kawo karshen wasu matsalolin.</div>
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<div>Ya kamata ma'aurata su koyi warware matsalolinsu a tsakanin su ba tare da sun fitar da shi waje ba. Hakan zai kara mu su kusanci a Tsakani saboda sun dau juna a matsayin abokai da za su iya zama su tattauna matsalolinsu, sannan su kuma san hanyoyin warware su ba tare da wani ko wata ya shigo cikin lamarin auren ku.</div>
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<div>Rashin ba ma juna lokaci </div>
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<div>Daga zarar anyi aure an fara tara iyali kowa ta kanshi yake babu wani sauran bama juna lokaci. Irin wannan ya fi faruwa ga mata, lokacinsu kacokam na yaransu ne. Miji da yayi magana za su yi korafin kula da yara da kuma aikace-aikacen gida.</div>
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<div>Wasu mazan kuwa aikinsu ya fiye mu su zama da iyalansu har ta kai su na dawowa da aikin office gida.</div>
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<div>Daga an gama an gaji sai bacci, babu wani lokaci da ma'auratan suka ware dan tattaunawa da kuma kara kusanci da junansu.</div>
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<div>Hakan na saurin kashe aure, sai ka ji mata na maganar "zaman yarana nake, zaman hakuri nake".</div>
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<div>Yanke hukunci ba tare da jin ta bakin daya bangaren ba</div>
<div>Yarda da juna ta sa kuka aminta da junanku a karkashin inuwa daya, babban kuskure daya bangare ya yanke hukunci ba tare da jin ta bakin dayan ba. Shawara na da dadi musamman ma ga ma'aurata, ya kamata su rika shawartar junansu wajen zartar da harkokin rayuwarsu.</div>
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<div>Hakan zai sa miji ko mata ganin an girmama su, tunda har za a nemi shawara a wajen su. Hakan na nuna tsantsar yarda da aminta da juna.</div>
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<div>Rashin yin hakan ka iya jawo zargi ko wasiwasi a zuciyar daya, ganin kamar babu yarda a tsakani.</div>
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<div>Rashin nuna gaskiya</div>
<div>Wannan na daya daga cikin manyan matsalolin da ke addabar aure a wannan zamanin, duba da shigowar kafofin sada zumunta da za a samu har matan aure nayi.</div>
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<div>Ba kowane namiji bane kan aminta matar shi ta shiga Social media ba. Haka mata ma kullum cikin zargin mazajensu suke a dalilin hakan.</div>
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<div>Babban abinda zamantakewarsu ta rasa shine rashin gaskiya. Idan har kun gini soyayyarku akan gaskiya da wuya irin wadannan ababen su jawo maku fitina a rayuwar aurenku.</div>
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<div>Ko ina namiji ko mace zasu kasance kowane bangare na yi wa dan uwanshi kyakkyawar zato. Rashin hakan ya kawo silar mutuwar aurarraki da dama. Duk abinda ma'aurata zasu yi, su yi shi a kan gaskiya da kuma rikon amana.</div>
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<div>Rashin tsayawa juna</div>
<div>A duk inda ma'aurata suke ya kamata su tsayawa junansu komin wuya komin dadi. Su zama kafadar jingina ga junansu wajen share hawayen junansu, sai dai mi? Wasu in dai matsala ko damuwa ba tasu ba ce ba, to hakan bai dame su ba, wannan halin ko in kula da su ke nunawa juna na kashe karsashin soyayya, sai ya zama idan shawara ko wata matsala suke ciki maimakon su tuntubi juna sai su kai damuwar su wani waje daban.</div>
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<div>Kwatantawa kowa muhallinsa</div>
<div>Wasu kan yi kuskure barin kowa na tsoma baki a rayuwar aurensu. Misali mijin da zai rika bari abokan shi na tsara mi shi yanda zai tafiyar da gidanshi, ko mace kawayenta su tsara ma ta, koma iyaye su rika tsoma baki a rayuwar yaransu.</div>
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<div>Miji ko mata dole ne ku nunawa kowanne matsayinsa a rayuwarku da irin muhimmancin da yake da shi, gudun kawo hargitsi a rayuwar aurenku.</div>
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<div>Amma matukar aka bar kowa na tsoma baki hakan ba karamin tasiri yake wajen wargaza zaman lafiyar ma'aurata ba.</div>
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<div>Daga karshe, za mu iya cewa wadannan suna daga cikin manyan kura-kurai da ma’aurata ke yi. Ba kuma sukenan ba. Idan akwai wasu da kuke ganin ya dace si shiga wannan lisaafi</div>
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Manya-manyan kura-kurai da ma'aurata ke yi ba su sani ba

Abun Farin ciki Daga Kannywood An Sanya Mandu'in Nura M Inuwa A Jarabawar Neco 2019

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Daya daga cikin yaran nura m Inuwa ko ince abokin aikinsa Annur H Abnur tofa albarkacin bakinsa .<br />
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"<i>Alhamdulillah!Ganin wannan tambayar a cikin jarabawar NECO ta 2019 ba karamin abun alfahari bane a garemu qasar Hausa baki daya.Dan idan mun duba zamuga ana nazarin waqoqin mawaqan daurin ne kawai amma ba a fiya duba abun da mawaqan yanzu sukeyi ba bare ma har a sakashi akan mizanin nazarin ADABI.Amma duba da irin baiwa,saqonni,fadakarwa,nishadantarwa,wa'azantarwa da ilimantarwa dake cikin waqonqin @nura_m_inuwa an tsundumashi cikin mawaqan da ake nazarin waqoqinsu a kasar Hausa.Allah ya qara Daukaka harshen  Hausa, Allah kuma ya qara yi mana jagora.Congratulations Sir. Ka cancanci piye da haka.Allah ya qara dauka da arzuki mai albarka. @nura_m_inuwa</i>"<br />
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Abun Farin ciki Daga Kannywood An Sanya Mandu'in Nura M Inuwa A Jarabawar Neco 2019

Masha Allah a madadin ceo Hausaloaded blog Abubakar Rabiu da mabiya ziyarar wannan shafi na taya shahararren mawakin nan nura m inuwa wannan cigaba daga sana'arsa. Daya daga cikin yaran nura m Inuwa …

Dalilai sha daya da kan sa a so miskilin namiji

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<div>Kwanakin baya na yi ta samun korafi daga bakin mata suna kawo kokensu akan miskilan maza. Da yawa na takaicin halayyar irin wadannan mazaje saboda dabi'arsu ta nuna halin ko in kula.</div>
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<div>Duk da ansan cewa dabi'ar mata ce yawan magana, babban rauninsu a rayuwa kuma shine "so", sabili da emotional side dinsu. Inda a maza ba haka abin ya ke ba, kamar yadda na karanta a cikin littafin "Men are from Mars, Women from Venus", inda na gane bambance-bambance da ke tsakanin mace da namiji.</div>
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<div>Wasu na ganin cewa miskilanci ra'ayi ne, wani bangaren kuma na ganin halitta ce. Akwai taken da Bahaushe ya yi ma miskili cewa, "kafi mahaukaci ban haushi".</div>
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<div>Ana kallon miskilin mutum a kan cewa mutum ne shi mai girman kai, da jiji da kai, mutum mai wulakanci wanda sam ba haka bane ba. Yanayin halittar shi ce haka ta rashin son magana da kuma shiga abinda bai shafe su ba. </div>
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<div>Alal hakika ba'a fahimci ya rayuwar miskili ta ke ba, shi yasa da yawa daga cikin mutane ke gudunsu, ana masu kallon wadanda basu da dadin sha'ani. Wasu ma a kan yi tunanin ko basu da cikakkiyar lafiya ne, ko kuma matsalar jinnu ke damunsu, kowa da irin tunaninshi akan miskilin mutum.</div>
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<div>A wani bincike da aka gudanar a jami'ar Waterloo da ke Ontario a kasar Canada, inda aka ware kamanin dalibai 480 dan gudanar da bincike a kansu. Inda aka ware dalibai 290 wadanda ba miskilai ba, sannan aka samu 190 wadanda sune miskilai, kuma sune wadanda suka fi kokari da wayau a cikin makarantar.</div>
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<div>Akwai tambayar da na samu daga wajen ƙawata a kan ta ya za ta bullowa miskilin saurayinta, abin na matukar damunta.</div>
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<div>Na tausashe ta, tare da ba ta wasu yan dabaru. Matsalar da ake samu shine da yawan mata saboda yanayin dabi'ar mu ba mu san yadda zamu tafiyar da miskilin namiji ba, wanda sai mu ga kamar rayuwar aure ba za ta yiwu a tsakaninmu ba.</div>
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<div>Zan kawo mana dalilai da za su gamsar da mai karatu dalilan da kan sa a so miskilin namiji har ma a yi tunanin ya fi sauran maza dadin zama bisa ga binciken da Dakta Barbara Markway masaniya a kan halayyar dan Adam ta yi a shekarar 2011. </div>
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<div>1. Suna da kokarin sauraren mutum</div>
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<div>Da yawan miskilai idan aka zo batun su saurari mutum suna cikin sahun farko na mutane masu saurare, maimakon kuyi ta musayar kalamai da su, sai su kasance suna sauraron mi ki ke cewa, ba wai sauraro irin ya shiga kunnen dama ya fita ta hagu ba, a'a za su saurari duk bayaninki bil hakki da gaskiya sannan su samu matsugunin da za su ajiye maganar.</div>
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<div>To a nan an sha bamban, mafi yawan mata basu son wannan dabi'ar. Mata sun fi son suna magana ana maida yanda aka yi, to daga ta ga an yi shiru sai ta harzuka ta ga kamar da kanta kawai take magana. Daga nan matsala za ta fara kunno kai saboda an samu sabanin fahimtar juna.</div>
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<div>Mata ku fahimci wani abu guda dangane da miskilin namiji a duk lokacin da ki ka gama bayaninki yana daukar duk wata kalma da ta fito daga bakinki mai muhimmanci.</div>
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<div>2. Samun isashshen lokacin magana</div>
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<div>Kamar yadda na ambata a farko, za ki samu isashshen lokacin da za ki duk wata magana da za ki yi ba tare da anyi interrupting dinki ba. Kina da yancin ki fadi duk abinda ki ke so, babu wata gardama unlike wasu mazan da ba za su bari ma ki fadi jimla daya ba za su katse ki. Ko da ba a kan gaskiya ki ke magana ba zai yi shiru ya saurare ki har sai kin gama bayaninki sannan ya fadi na shi ra'ayin.</div>
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<div>3. Sun iya kwantar da hankali</div>
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<div>Daga zarar sun fahimci rigima ki ke nema ko kina cikin damuwa suna saurin ganewa, saboda yanayin shirunsu kan sa su nakalci halayen mutane. Ko da ba ki yi magana ba zai fahimci cewa kina cikin tashin hankali ko damuwa, kuma ya san ta hanyar da zai bi wajen kwantar ma ki da hankali ta cikin ruwan sanyi ba tare da kin dagula ma shi lissafi ba. Ke ma kafin ki sani kin nemi damuwarki kin rasa. Suna da baiwa ta wannan fannin sosai.</div>
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<div>4. Suna da saurin fahimtar yanayin mutane </div>
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<div>Komin surutunki akwai lokacin da zai zo ki ji ko motsi ma ba ki son yi. Ba wai dan kina cikin damuwa ba ko wani abu, hakanan za ki ta shi da canzawar yanayinki, ki ji ba ki son yi ma kowa magana.</div>
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<div>Miskilin namiji zai yi saurin fahimtar har ya ba ki lokaci na kanki zuwa sanda za ki ji kin dawo hayyacinki, shi sam hakan ba matsala ba ce a wajen shi. Saboda ya san irin wannan yanayin da akan shiga, zai sa kanshi a ma'auninki. A lokacin ya ji irin abinda ki ke ji ta hakan zai saurara mi ki ya fahimce ki.</div>
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<div>5. Ba su da saurin mita, gardama ko korafi</div>
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<div>Akwai mazan da suna da mita da korafi, ko da kuskure ki ka yi ya kan dade kafin su manta, kullum sai sun yi ma ki mita akan abun. Koda kuwa kuskure aka samu ba halayyarki ba ce.</div>
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<div>Amma su miskilan maza basu da wannan mita, ko gardama ce ta kaure su kan tsaya su natsu kafin su furtar da magana wadda idan suka yi, ta wadatar ba sai sun kara ba.</div>
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<div>Daga lokacin da aka yi abu, suka yi magana shi kenan ya wuce a wajensu ba su sake maimaitar maganar bare su yi ma ki korafin kinyi kaza da kaza kwanaki ai.</div>
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<div>6. Basu da nuna takama da alfahari</div>
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<div>Ba kasafai za ki samu miskilin namiji da nuna isa ba, ya nuna shi ya isa a komi, usamman idan yana da kudi, ko kyau za ki samu wani ma ya zo yana alfahari da kudinshi, ya nuna cewa dan kudinshi ko kyan shi ki ke tare da shi. Irin wadannan kan so kansu fiye da yadda ki ke tsammani.</div>
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<div>Amma miskilin namiji bai da wannan, bai ma da lokacin da zai tsaya batawa wajen yin haka.</div>
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<div>7. Zama da miskilin kan koya ma ki yanda za ki so kanki ki yarda da kanki</div>
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<div>Da yawan mata na fama da irin wannan matsalar ta rashin yadda da kai, wala Allah ta fannin sa sutura, iya kwalliya, kyawun sura, iya abinci da sauransu. Wata duk yadda ta kware a irin wadannan fannoni akwai lokuttan da za ta ji ai wance ta fita, sai a ga ta raina kanta tana ganin ai ba ta kai wance kyau ko iya kwalliya ba.</div>
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<div>Miskilin namiji zai nuna ma ki cewa ai wancen ma kin fita, ko kuma ya nuna ma ki za ki iya yin fiye da ita. Zai karfafa ma ki gwuiwa sosai wajen tafiyar da rayuwarki saboda ba zai kushe ki ba.</div>
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<div>8. Sun iya bada shawara</div>
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<div>Saboda yanayin halayyarsu, mafi yawan lokuttan da ba magana su ke ba, su kan zauna su yi tunanin abubuwan da ke faruwa a rayuwa, idan da matsala tana za su nemo mafita. Su kan ba kansu wannan lokacin na tunani da samun warwara matsaloli.</div>
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<div>A duk lokacin da ki ke neman shawara za su ba ki sahihiyar shawara ne, wadda za ta amfane ki ba kuma za ki yi dana sanin bin ta ba, saboda su din suna da kaifin basira da zurfaffan tunani.</div>
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<div>9. Mutum ne shi mai gaskiya da amana</div>
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<div>Abu ne mai matukar wahala ki samu miskilin namiji da rashin gaskiya ko rashin amana. Duk sirrinki a rufe suke a wajen shi saboda magana ma wahala take ba shi bare har ya zauna ya bada. Sannan baida yawaitar abokai da zai zauna ya fadi sirrinki a wajensu. Lokuttan shi na aiki ne, tunani ko karance-karance da rubuce-rubuce.</div>
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<div>10. Mutum ne da idan yana son abu to yana son shi</div>
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<div>Babu wani abu da zai canza hakan. Ya ganki da kwalliya ko ba kwalliya, zai so ki ne a yanda ki ke. Rashin kwalliyar ko kwalliyar ba zai taba canza yanda ya ke sonki ba.</div>
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<div>11. Zama da shi kansa ki koyi wasu halaye na shi sannan ki kara sanin wasu abubuwan</div>
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<div>A zama na farko abu ne mai matukar wahala ki fahimci waye shi, sannan baya daga cikin irin samarin da kan zo su yi bayyana ma ki kansu, wanda da wuya ki fahimci abu uku cikin bayanin da suke ma ki.</div>
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<div>Miskilin mutum lokaci ne zai fada ma ki waye shi. A farko zai gundire ki, za ki yi ta korafin halayyarsa, amma da tafiya ta mika za ki fahimci cewa ya fi dadin zama.</div>
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<div>Ke din da kanki za ki juya zuwa yanda ki ke so, ya danganta da ke din wacece. Dole ki nakalci abubuwan da ya ke so, dan ya zama akan su za ku tattauna. Ta nan za ki ji bakinshi fiye da yanda ki ke tsammani. Saboda kin tabo abinda ya ke so, musamman ma idan mutum ne shi mai son yawan karance-karance.</div>
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<div>Posted by Ayeesh Chuchu </div>
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Dalilai sha daya da kan sa a so miskilin namiji

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Adam A Zango ya mallaki dankareriyar Sabuwar MOTA. Allah ya sanya Alheri (kalli Hotuna)

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Kin yi ta saurare ki ji ya turo manyansa zuwa gidanku amma har yanzu shiru: Ga dalilai

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<div>Mata mu kan fada cikin yanayi na yaudara cikin sauri ba tare da mun farga ba. Musamman idan namiji ya zo da batun auren ki zan yi, mu kan mika duk wata ragamar rayuwar mu a gare shi, muna masu amanna da mika wuya dari bisa dari. </div>
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<div>Sam bama hangen da mi yazo a lokacin, mi yasa mu ke sonsa, a'a mu dai babban burin ai ya cika tunda yace aure ne a gaban sa. Amma mi? Shiru shiru yaki ya turo iyayensa a maganar dattijai. Idan kin yi magana kullum sai dai yace miki lokaci yake jira, ko kuwa akwai wani abu da yake son ya kammala, shiru an dau watanni har ya haura shekara babu wani batun shigowar manya a lamarin soyayyar ku. </div>
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<div> Shi fa namiji matukar yana son abu to yana iya yin komai dan ganin ya mallake shi, koda kuwa mazaje dubu ke sonki babban burin shi a ce shi ne yayi zarra. Zai yi duk wani abu dan ganin ya mallake ki, kin zama ta shi. Amma matukar kuka shafe shekara ko watanni babu wani batun shigowar manya a lamarinku to ki tabbata ba auren ki ya zo yi ba, ko kuwa ya zo da nufin aurenki amma cikin dan zaman da kuka yi wasu dalilai ya say a kasa yanke shawara akan ki.</div>
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<div>Akwai dalilai da dama da zan kawo wadanda zasu haska miki hanya ki tabbatar da cewa kodai ba aurenki ya zo yi ba, ya zo dai ya rage zango ne don kar kadaici ya ishe shi, ke din dai wata aba ce ta debe kewa ba matar da za a aura ba, ko kuwa akwai wasu abubuwa da yake hangowa dake sanya shi wasiwasi. </div>
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<div>Cikin wadannan dalilai da zan lissafo dole a samu biyu ko uku da za ki ga yana aikatawa wadanda zasu wayar miki don ki fahimci abinda ake ciki.</div>
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<div>Duk namijin da ma ke sonki da aure ai yardar iyayenki ne abu na farko da ya kamata yayi don neman izinin aurenki, kafin soyayya ta rufe miki ido ya zamanto ba mutum bane nagartacce da ya dace da rayuwarki har ya zamo abokin rayuwa a gare ki.</div>
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<div>Don haka, duk namijin da ba sonki yake da aure ba, sai ya nuna wasu alamomi da za su nuna mi ki cewa ba aurenki zayyi ba. Ga su nan kamar haka.</div>
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<div>1. Yana tunanin ba za ki iya zama abokiyar rayuwa a gare shi ba</div>
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<div>Yana daya daga cikin dalilan da ya sa ba zai iya tunkarar iyayenki ba, ko kuma ya gabatar dake ga iyayen shi a matsayin matar da zai aura, yana tunanin ba ki dace da zama abokiyar rayuwarshi ba.</div>
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<div>Kamar yadda na fada daga farko matukar namiji na son abu ya kan yi iya bakin kokarin sa wajen ganin ya mallaki wannan abu, to daga zarar duk batun babu maganar turo iyaye a yi maganar aure ki sa a ranki cewa ba ki daga cikin tsarin macen da yake son rayuwa da ita.</div>
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<div>Kamar yadda wata baiwar Allah da na tattauna da ita ta bani labarin yanda ta shafe shekaru hudu tana soyayya da saurayinta, amma kawai rana tsaka sai taga katin aurensa da wata daban.</div>
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<div>"Tun da na fara soyayya da shi bai taba nuna man zai turo magabatansa a yi maganar aure ba, hasali nuna mun yake ni yarinya ce in bari in idar da karatuna. Har sai da na je bautar kasa na matsa ya turo yace in gama bautar kasa tukunna, kwatsam sai ga katin aurensa, hakan ya girgiza ni".</div>
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<div>Irin hakan na faruwa sosai, sai dai har yanzu matan sun kasa hankalta da ire-iren wadannan samari.</div>
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<div>2. Daga lokacin da soyayyarku ta zama zafi da sanyi</div>
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<div>Ma'ana akwai lokacin da za a ganku tare, kafin a ce wani abu kuma kun rabu. Hakan ba zai hana kuma gobe ku dawo ba. Babu takamaimai tsayayyar soyayya a tsakanin ku, kullum tana cikin halin kunnawa da kashewa. Babu ta yadda za a yi ya turo iyayensa a wannan halin da soyayyar ku ke ciki na rashin tabbas. Don haka, matukar ta na rawa, ba zai so maganar aure ta hada ku ba ko kuwa ya turo iyayensa gidanku. Yana da kyau a cikin irin wannan hali, ku samu matukar natsuwa don fahimtar bambance-bambancen da ke tsakanin ku da kuma tattauna su.</div>
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<div>3. Rashin tabbas akan halayyarki</div>
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<div>Kowane namiji na son ya kai ma iyayen shi matar da zai aura ta zama ta gari kuma mai natsuwa. Matukar akwai rashin daya daga cikin wadannan, duk son da ke tsakanin ku ba zai iya sada ki da iyayen shi ba, bare har ayi maganar aure, saboda bai dauke ki a matsayin mata ba, kuma uwar da yake tunanin za ta kula da tarbiyar yaransa.</div>
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<div> Kullum za ki yi ta surutun wane yaushe za ka turo iyayenka? Amma shiru daga ya ce miki yau ko gobe, amma babu wani labari. Ki binciki halayyar ki da bai so, don ba zai so ya kai abinda za a yi Allah wadai da shi ba; zai so ya kai macen da iyayensa zasu yi alfahari da kasancewar ku tare.</div>
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<div>4. Akwai yiwuwar bai mance da soyayyarsa ta baya ba, ko kuma akwai wacce yake so ko kuma ma akwai wadda iyayenshi suka san da zamanta</div>
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<div>Mantawa da kuma cigaba da rayuwa a lokacin da mutum ya samu karayar zuciya abu ne mai matukar wahala musamman idan an yi zama na so da kauna mai cike da ababen tunawa. To a irin wannan lokacin wani zai ga yin wata budurwar ne maslaha. Sai tafiya ta mika ya fahimci ke ba irin budurwar sa ta baya bace, ba ki dace da irin rayuwar da yake tunanin samu ba.</div>
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<div>Dama ya shigo rayuwar ki ne dan ya manta da ita waccen tsohuwar budurwarsa, amma abin yaki ci yaki cinyewa.</div>
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<div>Ko kuma ya hango wata wadda yake tunanin ita ce ta dace da rayuwar shi, ba ke ba.</div>
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<div>Ko kuma dama can akwai wadda iyayensa suka san da ita. Kin ga kuwa ba yanda za a yi ya gabatar da maganar aurenki wajensu saboda akwai wadda suka riga suka san da maganarta a kasa. </div>
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<div>To fa maganar aure ma ba ta so ba, don zai bi duk wata hanya ta ganin ya zille miki, ba tare da ya hadu da iyayen ki ba don neman izini daga gare su. Haka zai yi ta miki yawo da hankali har sai kin gaji kin rabu da shi.</div>
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<div>5. Dama ya shirya rabuwa da ke ko kuma tun fil azal ba son ki yake ba</div>
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<div>Wasu mazan dama ba da niyyar aure suke zuwa ba, sun zo ne da niyyar su rage dogon zango kafin su samu wadda suke so da gaskiya. Ke aikin ki shine faranta masa da kuma rage masa tsawon lokuttan shi.</div>
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<div>Ta yiwu kuma a farko yana son ki amma daga baya karsashin ya ragu sosai, kawai lokaci yake jira na rabuwa da ke ya kama gabansa. Ga irin wannan namiji, ko mi za ki yi, ba zai turo iyayensa gidanku ba. Idan kika takura to zai fara ja da baya, za ki rage jin sa da kuma ganin sa, duk wasu abubuwa da yake miki a da zai rage su koma ya daina gaba daya har sai ya zamanto kin neme shi kin rasa; ya tafi. Saboda ba shi da ra'ayin auren ki, ya kan iya miki dadin bakin ba dan baya son ki bane yasa haka, iyayensa na da wacce suke so ya aura ko kuma ya kawo ma ki wani dalilin na daban na rashin turo da iyayensa da bayyi ba.</div>
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<div>6. Ba ki daga cikin zabin da iyayensa zasu aminta da ita</div>
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<div>Da yawan iyaye kan nuna ma yaransu irin mata ko namijin da suke so su aura. Kowane bangare burinsa ya kawo abinda iyayensa zasu yi farinciki da sam barka a kanta ko kanshi. Babu wanda zai so ya bakanta ma wadanda suka fi soyuwa a zuciyarsa fiye da kowa.</div>
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<div>A zaben matar aure da ma sauran harkokin rayuwa iyaye na taka muhimmiyar rawa wajen zaben wadannan ababen ga rayuwar yaransu. To matukar ya san iyayensa ba zasu yi maraba da ke ba a matsayin matar dansu, to ba zai fara tunanin kawo maganar aurenki ba. Har sai zuwa lokacin da kuka rabu za ki fahimci hakan.</div>
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<div>7. Bai dauki soyayyarku da muhimmanci ba</div>
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<div>Watakila ke yanda kike tunanin soyayyar ku ta kai ko kuma ma ta wuce, shi a wajen sa ba haka ba ne. Kila kina tunanin ta kai wannan matsayin na iyayenku su san da zamanta, sam a wajen sa ba ta da wannan muhimmancin. Ke a wajen ki a shirye kike da ki zama matarshi wanda a wajen sa ba haka abin yake ba. Kowane dan adam da yanayin karfin soyayyar sa.</div>
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<div>Matukar namiji ya budi baki cewa zai turo iyayensa, ki sa a ranki cewa ba wai a matsayin budurwa yake kallon ki ba, a'a yana kallon ki ne a matsayi mata kuma uwar yaransa saboda daukar soyayyar da yayi da muhimmanci.</div>
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<div>Wanda kuma bai dauke ta da muhimmanci ba, baya ma tunanin tafiyar da soyayyar zuwa mataki na gaba, saboda da ita da babu duk daya suke a wajensa.</div>
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<div>Abu na karshe da za ki sani shine, namiji ya turo iyayensa gidanku, ba abu ne da zai faru cikin kankanin lokaci da zarar kun fara soyayya ba. Hasali ma dai akwai bukatar ki yi kaffa-kaffa da namijin dake saurin miki dadin bakin cewa zai turo iyayensa gidanku. Duk abinda kake so na hakika, ka kan dauki lokaci don lura da gamsar da rayuwarka cewa lallai fa wannan abu shi ka ke so kuma ya dace da kai.</div>
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Kin yi ta saurare ki ji ya turo manyansa zuwa gidanku amma har yanzu shiru: Ga dalilai

Mata mu kan fada cikin yanayi na yaudara cikin sauri ba tare da mun farga ba. Musamman idan namiji ya zo da batun auren ki zan yi, mu kan mika duk wata ragamar rayuwar mu a gare shi, muna masu amanna…

Kubewa Magani ce , Ga Kuma Yadda Ake Amfani Da Ita

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<div dir="ltr">Hausawa na kiranta KUBEWA, Turawa na cewa LADY’S FINGER  Amerikawa na ce GUMBO mutanen Spain na ce mata  GUIBEIRO yayinda a India ake ce mata  BENDAKAI. Amma dai duk an yi imanin cewar KUBEWA ta samo asali ne daga kasar Habasha wato Ethiopia da kuma Masar wato Egypt tun karni na 12. Mutane da dama na ci ko sham miyar kubewa saboda dadinta ne kawai amma ga kadan daga cikin  amfaninta a matsayin magani wanda aka shafe shekaru dauruwa ana amfani da ita.A wasu kasashen Turai ma har packaging ake mata a matsayin magani.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">1. Ana amfani da kubewa wajen maganin  ciwon sugar wato  Diabetes. Saboda abinda ake kira (fiber ) a cikinta, na amfani wajen daidaita yawan suga a cikin  jiki, wanda kuma ke rage karfi ciwon sugar ko ma maganinsa.<br />
2. Masu ciki kan iya amfani da kubewa domin ingancin lafiyarsu da kuma na jaririn da ke ciki domin kubewa na kunshe da  dimbin Vitamin B da ke samarwa da kuma inganta sabbin kwayoyin halitta na gina jiki (cells) da kuma ( folates) don haka kubewa na hana haihuwar jariri mai dauke da wasu nakasu a jikinsa  kuma na sa jaririn ya  girma a ciki kuma da koshin lafiya yadda ake so. Haka kuma jaririn da ke ciki  zai iya amfana da dimbin Vitamin C dake cikin kubewa domin kare lafiyarsa.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">3. Kubewa na maganin ciwon koda. Wani bincike  daga jami’ar Jilin ta kasar Sin ya tabbatar da  wannan. Binciken. Ya nuna cewar wadanda suke ci ko shan kubewa a kullun  sun nuna nasarar rashin lalacewar koda  musamman wadanda ke da ciwon sugar domin kusan kasha 50 na masu matsalar koda sun samu matsalar ne saboda suna da ciwon sugar.</div>
<div dir="ltr">4. Kubewa na kara lafiyar dubura (colon)  wato karshen babban hanji.yana wanke hanji da tumbi sosai don haka yana maganin kumburin ciki. Kuma Vitamin A da ke cikin kubewa na taimakawa lafiyar  wani abu kamar majina  ( Mucous membranes) na cikin babban hanji.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">5. Kubewa na  maganin Asthma da wasu cututtukan numfashi. Yana dauke da Vitamin C da ke taimakawa hanyoyin numfashi.</div>
<div dir="ltr">6. Kubewa na kara ingancin fatan jikin mutum yay i laushi da santsi kamar yaukin kubewa. Ka ga mutum kullun kamar yaro ko yarinya a fatarsa.Yana  kuma taimakawa wajen mayar da fatar da ta lalace.</div>
<div dir="ltr">7. Yana  matukar maganin Anaemia wato karancin jini a jiki domin kubewa na kunshe da sinadarin Iron sosai. Kuma yawan amfaani da kubewa na sanya idan ka ji rauni jini ba zai zuba da yawa har yay i maka lahani ba. (blood coagulation)</div>
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<div dir="ltr">8. Yawan sha ko cin kubewa na matukar rage nauyin jiki  ga wadanda suke jin kiba ya musu yawa.</div>
<div dir="ltr">9. Wani sinadari a cikin kubewa da ake kira  (soluble fibre) yana taimakawa wajen rage cholesterol wanda kuma hakan ke rage yiyuwar kamuwa da ciwon zuciya sannan na taimakawa wajen samar da ingantaccen ruwan data (madaci) a hanji</div>
<div dir="ltr">10. Amfani da kubewa a kai a kai na inganta kashin mace da namiji  kuma na maganin dandruff. Za ka tafasa ruwa tare dayankakken danyen kubewa, idan yay i sanyi sai ka matse rabin lemon tsami a ciki sai ki rinka wanke kanki ko kanka da ruwan. Kuma yana kasha kwarkwata ma.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">11. Kubewa na kara kare lafiyar garkuwan jiki ya kuma rage maka yawan kamuwa da cututtuka. Sinadaran Vitamin ce da calcium da magnesium da sauransu da ke cikin kubewa sukan taimaka wajen yaki da abubuwa marasa kyau a jikin mutum.<br />
12. Kubewa na kara ingancin lafiyar ido da kuma hana kamuwa da yanar ido domin yana kunshe da Vitamin A da carotene masu yawa a cikinsa. Mai yawan shan kubewa zai iya tsufa da idanunsa garau.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">YANDA AKE AMFANI DA SHI.<br />
RUWAN KUBEWA.<br />
A sa kubewa guda biyu zuwa uku (gudansa) a ruwa maras zafi ko dumi a cikin kwano ko gilashi a barshi ya kwana , sai a cire kubewar da safe a shanye ruwan. Kullun a rinka yin haka har kwanaki talatin ko fiye domin samun sakamakoo mai kyau. Ana iya cigaba da hakan.<br />
Ko mua a yankan kubewar  a sanya cikin ruwa a barta ta kwana sannan a shanye ruwan kullun da safe. Amma za a dan ji daci daci.<br />
Sannan  ana iya mafani da wuka a fere kubewar wato bawonsa mai aunin kore sai a ci bawon kai tsaye danyensa amma kar ya wuce rabin cokalin shan shayi a lokaci guda.<br />
Ko kuma  a cire yayan kubewar a sanya su bushe sannan a nika har su zama gari  sai a rinka sha da ruwa. Amma kada a sha ya<br />
wuce 5gm a rana.<br />
Ana kuma yin tea da ganyen kubewa. (sources: information,com and <a href="http://pinterest.com/">pinterest.com</a>)<br />
LALLAI NE KA TUNTUBI LIKITANKA KAFIN SOMA AIKI DA KOWANE IRIN MAGANI!<br />
Allah sa mu dace.</div>
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Kubewa Magani ce , Ga Kuma Yadda Ake Amfani Da Ita

Hausawa na kiranta KUBEWA, Turawa na cewa LADY’S FINGER Amerikawa na ce GUMBO mutanen Spain na ce mata GUIBEIRO yayinda a India ake ce mata BENDAKAI. Amma dai duk an yi imanin cewar KUBEWA ta samo…

Kalli wasu Hotunan Da Sunka Dauki Hankalin mutane Na Adam a Zango Da wata Yarinya Masu Alaka Da (pre-wedding)

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Tirkashi: Na sha kama mijina dumu-dumu yana zina da mata akan gadonmu na Sunnah

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- Wasu ma'aurata da suka kai kara kotu, sun nemi kotu ta raba auren dake tsakaninsu saboda cin amanar juna da suke<br />
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- Matar ta bayyanawa kotun cewa ta sha kama mijin nata yana lalata da mata akan gadonsu na sunna a lokuta da dama<br />
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- Haka shi kuma mijin ya bayyana cewa matar tana yawan yi masa barazanar cewa zata yi masa wanka da ruwan guba idan har bai daina abinda yake ba<br />
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Rikici tsakanin wasu ma'aurata, kan cin amanar juna yasa sun nufi kotu da niyyar ta raba auren dake tsakanin su.<br />
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Wata mata mai suna Misis Edith Obieme ta bukaci wata kotu dake birnin Legas akan ta raba auren dake tsakaninta da mijinta mai suna Mista Kingsley, wanda suka shafe shekara biyu suna tare, matar ta bayyanawa kotu cewa ta sha kamashi yana lalata da mata a lokuta da dama a kan gadonsu na Sunnah.<br />
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Da farko dai mijin shine wanda ya fara kai karar kotun, inda ya nemi kotun ta raba auren nasu, akan cewar matar tasa tana yawan yi masa barazanar za ta halaka shi, sai dai ita kuma matar ta musanta zargin da mijin yayi mata.<br />
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Matar ta bukaci kotun ta raba auren nasu saboda ta gaji da ganin yadda mijin nata yake kwanciya da mata akan idonta ba tare da ya damu ba.<br />
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"Na taba kama shi da 'yar aikin gidanmu, tunda nake dashi ban taba ce mishi ina bukatar 'yar aiki ba, amma tun daga ranar dana kamasu ta kwashe kayanta ta bar gidan.<br />
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"Mijina talaka ne bashi da ko sisi, ina ganin babu wata riba da zan ci idan na kashe shi," in ji kamfanin dillancin labarai na Najeriya (NAN).<br />
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"Na san dai na taba yiwa karuwarsa barazanar cewa zanyi mata wanka da ruwan guba (ACID) idan na sake ganinta tare dashi," in ji Edith wacce take kasuwancin ta kuma tana goyon yaro dan watanni hudu.<br />
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Ta kuma bayyanawa kotu cewa ita ce take daukar duka nauyin gidan, tun daga kansa, 'ya'yansa da kuma matansa da ya saka.<br />
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Sai dai kuma mijin ya bayyama cewa duk lokacin da suka yi fada da ita sai tayi mishi barazanar cewa zata yi masa wanka da ruwan guba.<br />
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"Ba na son na mutu, ni kuma gaskiya ina tsoron wata rana za ta kasheni."<br />
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"Ba na son na mutu, ni kuma gaskiya ina tsoron wata rana za ta kasheni."<br />
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"Na jima bana cin abincinta, saboda ina tsoron kada ta sanya mini guba," in ji mijin.<br />
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Ma'auratan dai sun nemi kotu ta raba auren nasu, inda kotun ta daga sauraron karar har zuwa ranar 18 ga watan Yuli, bayan ta gama sauraron kowanne bangare a tsakaninsu.<br />
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Tirkashi: Na sha kama mijina dumu-dumu yana zina da mata akan gadonmu na Sunnah

- Wasu ma'aurata da suka kai kara kotu, sun nemi kotu ta raba auren dake tsakaninsu saboda cin amanar juna da suke - Matar ta bayyanawa kotun cewa ta sha kama mijin nata yana lalata da mata akan gado…

MACEN DA IN MIJINTA YA SADU DA ITA MANIYYIN SAI YA GANGARO BAYA ZAMA A CIKIN FARJINTA

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<div>Wannan matsalar tana faruwane sakamakon toshewar wasu bututu daga cikin farji, kuma suna toshewane bisa sababi Na rauni dake faruwa wajen Haihuwa ko 6ari, sannan shetanun Aljanu👹👺 musamman jinnul Ashiq Na iya haddasa wannan matsalar, sannan shigar iska cikin farji ma yana da tasiri wajen faruwar wannan matsala.</div>
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<div>Idan Farjin mace ya guntsi iska toh ko Yaya ta motsa iskar sai tayi kokarin hurowa waje, don hakane ma in aka sadu da ita sai iskar ta huro zuwa waje don haka sai iskar ta horo maniyyin da mijinta ya zuba mata sai ya fito waje.</div>
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<div>Sannan ta hada kaninfari da yayan hulbah, da tafarnuwa, da ganyen magarya tana dafawa tana Shiga ciki, in tabi wadannan hanyoyin inshaaAllahu mniyyin zai zauna a cikin farjinta bayan jima'i.</div>
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<div>*Ayaba*</div>
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<div>1. Yana kare mutum daga kamuwa da cutar zuciya.</div>
<div>2. Yana kara karfin kashi.</div>
<div>3. Ayaba na kare mutum daga kamuwa da cutar hawan jini sannan kuma yana samar da sauki wa mutanen dake fama da cutar.</div>
<div>4. Yana hana bacewan ciki(zawo).</div>
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<div>*Wake*</div>
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<div>1. Yana taimakawa wajen wanke ciki musamman yara kanana.</div>
<div>2. Yana rage taruwan kitse a jiki.</div>
<div>3. Samar da kariya akan cutar siga sannan kuma yana samar da sauki wa mutanen dake fama da cutar siga.</div>
<div>4. Kawar da cutar daji.</div>
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<div>*Kabeji*</div>
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<div>1. Yana wanke ciki musamman yara kanana da suke yawan fama da hakan.</div>
<div>2. Kare mutum daga kamauwa da cutar zuciya.</div>
<div>3. Kawar da cutar daji.</div>
<div>4. Yana kuma rage kiba a jiki.</div>
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<div>*karas*</div>
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<div>1. karas na kara karfin ido.</div>
<div>2. Kare zuciyar mutum daga cututtukan dake kama zuciya.</div>
<div>3. Yana kawar da cutar daji.</div>
<div>4. Rage kiba a jiki.</div>
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<div>*Tafarnuwa*</div>
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<div>1. Kare mutum daga kamuwa da cutar hawan jini.</div>
<div>2. Kawar da cutar daji.</div>
<div>3. Rage kiba a jiki.</div>
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<div>*Inabi*</div>
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<div>1. Kare zuciyar mutum daga cututtukan dake kama zuciya.</div>
<div>2. Hana shanyewar shashen jikin mutum.</div>
<div>3. Kare maza daga kamuwa da cutar dajin dake kama ‘ya’yan maraine.</div>
<div>4. Taimakawa wajen motsa jini</div>
<div>5. Kara karfin ido.</div>
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<div>*Shayin da ake kira da ‘Green Tea’ da turanci*</div>
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<div>1. Kawar da cutar daji.</div>
<div>2. Yana hana mutum kamuwa da cutar zuciya.</div>
<div>3. Kawar da cutar dajin dake kama ‘ya’yan golayen na maza.</div>
<div>4. Yana rage kiba a jiki.</div>
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<div>*Zuma*</div>
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<div>1. Zuma na warkar da rauni, konar wuta a jiki.</div>
<div>2. Yana warkar da mura.</div>
<div>3. Yana taimakawa wajen yin numfashi yadda ya kamata</div>
<div>4. Yana maganin cutar asma.</div>
<div>5. Kawar da cutar gyambon ciki.</div>
<div>6. Kawar da cutar daji.</div>
<div>7. Yana taimakawa wajen narkar da abinci a ciki.</div>
<div>8. Zuma na kara karfin kashi.</div>
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<div>*Lemun team*</div>
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<div>1. Kare mutum daga cutar zuciya.</div>
<div>2. Kawar da cutar daji.</div>
<div>3. Yana gyara fatar jiki.</div>
<div>4. Samar da sauki wa masu fama da cutar hawan jini kuma da kariya da ga kamuwa da cutar.</div>
<div>5. Yana maganin hucewar mura.</div>
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<div>*Man zaitun*</div>
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<div>1. Kare mutum daga kamuwa da cutar daji.</div>
<div>2. Gyara fatar jiki.</div>
<div>3. Kawar da cutar siga.</div>
<div>4. Yana rage kiba.</div>
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<div>*Albasa*</div>
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<div>1. Yana kawar da cutar sanyi.</div>
<div>2. Kare mutum daga cutar zuciya.</div>
<div>3. Yana rage kitse.</div>
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<div>*Lemun zaki*</div>
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<div>1. Yana kara karfin garkuwa a jiki.</div>
<div>2. Maganin mura da hucewar mura.</div>
<div>3. Taimakawa wajen yin numfashi yadda ya kamata.</div>
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<div>*Abarba*</div>
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<div>1. Yana warkar da mura.</div>
<div>2. Kara karfin kashi.</div>
<div>3. Hana ami da gudawa.</div>
<div>4. Taimakawa wajen narkar da abinci a cikin mutum da sauri.</div>
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<div>1. Yana kara karfin ido.</div>
<div>2. Yana taimakawa wajen farantawa wa mutum zuciya musamman ga wadanda ke fama da rashin shi.</div>
<div>3. Yana kara karfin kashi.</div>
<div>4. Kawar da cutar daji.</div>
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<div>*Tumatir*</div>
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<div>1. Kawar da cutar daji musamman wanda ke kama ‘ya’yan golaye.</div>
<div>2. Rage kiba a jiki.</div>
<div>3. Yana warkar da rauni a jikin mutum.</div>
<div>4. Kara karfin kashi.</div>
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<div>*"P. Avada ko kuma Asala (Walnut)*</div>
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<div>1. Kare zuciyar mutum daga kamuwa da cututtukan dake kama zuciya.</div>
<div>2. Kawar da cutar daji.</div>
<div>3. Bunkasa kwakwalwa.</div>
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<div>*Kankana*</div>
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<div>1. Yana hana karancin ruwa a jiki.</div>
<div>2. Rage kiba.</div>
<div>3. Kare maza daga gcutar dajin dake kama ‘ya’yan golaye.</div>
<div>4. Kare mutum daga cutar shanyewa sashen jiki.</div>
<div>5. Kawar da cutar hawan jini.</div>
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<div>*Tufa (Apple)*</div>
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<div>1. Yana rage cutar zuciya.</div>
<div>2. Yana wanke cikin mutum musamman kananan yara.</div>
<div>3. Karfafa karfin gabobi.</div>
<div>4. Kawar da cutar dajin dake kama dubura da ‘ya’yan golaye.</div>
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<div>*S. Fiya (Avocado)*</div>
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<div>1. Kawar da cutar siga (Diabetes)</div>
<div>2. Kare mutum daga kamuwa da cutar shanyewar sashen jiki.</div>
<div>3. Kawar da cutar zuciya.</div>
<div>4. Gyara fatar jiki.</div>
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*Ayaba* 1. Yana kare mutum daga kamuwa da cutar zuciya. 2. Yana kara karfin kashi. 3. Ayaba na kare mutum daga kamuwa da cutar hawan jini sannan kuma yana samar da sauki wa mutanen dake fama da cutar…

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