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Ko kun san hadarin da 'Yan madigo ka iya fuskanta a rayuwa?

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Hukumar Lafiya ta Ingila NHS ta ce "mummunan camfin" nan da ake yadawa cewar 'yan madigo ba za su iya kamuwa da sankarar mahaifa ba, na nufin dubban mata ba sa yin gwaji.<br />
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Ana iya yada kwayar HPV a yayin kowane irin lamari da ya shafi saduwa, wadda ita ce take jawo mafi yawan sankarar mahaifa.<br />
Amma wani bincike ya nuna cewa daya daga cikin mata biyar 'yan madigo ba sa zuwa gwaji.<br />
Masana lafiya sun ce ya kamata duk wadda take da mahaifa kuma tana tsakanin shekaru 25 zuwa 64 ta dinga zuwa gwaji akai-akai.<br />
An samu adadin ne daga wani rahoto na dabi'ar 'yan madigo wajen yin gwajin mahaifa a Kudu maso Yammacin Ingila.<br />
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Yayin da da yawan mata ke bukatar zuwa gwajin sankarar mahaifa, kashi 8 cikin 100 na 'yan madigo ba su taba zuwa ba, ko ma ba su san muhimmancin hakan a gare su ba.<br />
Kashi 21 cikin 100 kuma na tunanin mata 'yan madigo ba sa fuskantar barazanar kamuwa da kansar mahaifa idan aka kwatanta da masu bin maza da kuma yin madigon a lokacin guda.<br />
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An yi binciken ne a kan fiye da mata 600.<br />
NHS ta Ingila ta ce hakan na nufin fiye da 'yan madigo 50,000 ba su taba yin gwajin mahaifa ba.<br />
Dokta Michael Brady jami'i a hukumar NHS kuma mai bai wa kungiyar 'yan luwadi da madigo LGBT shawara, ya ce:<br />
"Camfin da ake yadawa cewa 'yan madigo ba sa fuskantar barazanar kamuwa da sankarar mahaifa ba haka ba ne, domin hakan ya jawo dubban mutane da dama ba sa zuwa gwaji, kuma hakan abin damuwa ne ga al'ummarmu.<br />
"Ya kamata mu gane cewa kansa ba ruwanta da wariya, tana iya kama kowa.<br />
"Idan dai har kina da mahaifa to za ki iya kamuwa da sankarar mahaifa, kuma ana iya yin riga-kafinta, ya kamata mutane su dinga yin gwaji akai-akai."<br />
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'<b>Camfe-camfe masu cutarwa'</b><br />
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An yi wa fiye da kashi 71 cikin 100 na mata da ke tsakanin shekaru 25 zuwa 64 gwaji akai-akai, kamar yadda alkaluman shekarar da ta gabata suka nuna.<br />
Gwajin sankarar mahaifa da ake kira Pap Smear, na taimakawa wajen gano cutar tun tana matakin farko-farko.<br />
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Wata kwayar cuta da ake kira Human Papillomavirus (HPV) ce take jawo kusan dukkan sankarar mahaifa.<br />
Farfesa Anne Mackie, daraktra a cibiyar gwaji ta Ingila, ta ce matan da ke madigo za su iya kamuwa da kwayar cutar HPV a yayin saduwa.<br />
"Don haka dole ne mu karfafawa duk wadda ke da mahaifa gwiwa da ke tsakanin shekara 25 zuwa 64, su dinga yin gwaji akai-akai."<br />
Robert Music na kungiyar Jo's Cervical Cancer Trust, ya ce: "Dole ne a yi gaggawar kawar da camfe-camfen da ake yadawa cewa gwajin sankarar mahaifa ga 'yan madigo ba shi da muhimmanci.<br />
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"Gwajin mahaifa zai kasance mai wahala saboda dalilai da dama kuma dole mu mayar da hankali wajen kawar da shingen ke tsakani mu kuma tabbatar da cewa kowane mutum mai hankali ya fahimci amfanin gwajin sankarar mahaifa."<br />
Hukumar NHS ta Ingila za ta samar da wata sabuwar hanya ta gwajin mahaifa nan da shekarar 2020.<br />
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Ko kun san hadarin da 'Yan madigo ka iya fuskanta a rayuwa?

Hukumar Lafiya ta Ingila NHS ta ce "mummunan camfin" nan da ake yadawa cewar 'yan madigo ba za su iya kamuwa da sankarar mahaifa ba, na nufin dubban mata ba sa yin gwaji. Ana iya yada kwayar HPV a ya…

Yarima Bakura: Dalilin da ya sa na daina zuwa yin jaje Zamfara

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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Tsohon gwamnan jihar Zamfara a Najeriya ya yi bayani kan abin da ya sa bai damu da zuwa jajantawa mutanen da kashe-kashen da ake yi a jihar ya shafa ba.</div>
Sanata Ahmed Sani Yariman Bakura, wanda shi ne gwamnan farar hula na farko daga 1999 zuwa 2007 kuma sanata har zuwa 2019, ya shaida wa BBC cewa akwai wasu abubuwan da suka fi zuwa jaje muhimmanci da ya kamata shugabanni su mayar da hankali a kai.<br />
"Na fara zuwa sai na ga abu ne da ake yi kullum, sai na koma ina ba da shawara kan matakan da ya kamata a dauka," a cewar Yarima, wanda ke magana a karon farko da wata kafar yada labarai tun bayan da jam'iyyarsa ta APC ta rasa mulkin jihar.<br />
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A cikin hirar, wacce ya tatattauna batutuwan da suka shafi tsaro da siyasa da kuma shari'a, ya fadawa Awwal Janyau cewa zuwansa jaje ba zai kawo karshen matsalar tsaro a jihar ba.<br />
Jihar Zamfara na cikin jihohin arewa maso yammacin Najeriya inda ake yawan samun kashe-kashe da sace-sacen mutane, lamarin da ke jefa mazauna yankin cikin fargaba da raba wasu da gidajensu.<br />
Wasu 'yan Najeriya, musamman ma a jihar, sun dade suna alakanta matsalolin da rashin samun shugabanci nagari tun bayan dawowar mulkin dimokuradiyya.<br />
Kuma Sanata Yarima, wanda shi da abokan siyasarsa suka shafe shekara 20 suna mulkar jihar, ya amince cewa talauci ne ya jefa jihar cikin halin da take ciki a yanzu.<br />
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<b>Shari'a</b><br />
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Sanata Yariman Bakura ne ya fara kaddamar da Shari'ar Musulunci a Najeriya, inda daga baya wasu jihohi suka yi kokarin kaddamar da tsarin na Shari'a.<br />
Sai dai tun zamanin mulkin shari'a a Zamfara ake fuskantar rikicin makiyaya da manoma, da satar shanu wadanda ake ganain su ne suka ta'azzara suka koma fashi da makami da satar mutane a yankin arewa maso yammacin kasar.<br />
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Yarima Bakura: Dalilin da ya sa na daina zuwa yin jaje Zamfara

Tsohon gwamnan jihar Zamfara a Najeriya ya yi bayani kan abin da ya sa bai damu da zuwa jajantawa mutanen da kashe-kashen da ake yi a jihar ya shafa ba. Sanata Ahmed Sani Yariman Bakura, wanda shi ne…

Tafa Ta Ƙare : Saudiyya ta gayyaci Nikci Minaj ta bude musu taron waka da Bismillah

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Kasar Saudiyya ta gayyaci shahararriyar mawakiyar kasar Amurka Nikci Minaj, domin ta yi musu waka<br />
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 - Kasar ta gayyace ta ne domin gabatar da wakar a wani biki da zata gabatar ranar 18 ga watan Yuli<br />
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- Hakan ya biyo bayan kokarin da kasar take yi na ganin ta kawo cigaba ta fannin sassauta wasu dokoki da ta sanya a shekarun da suka gabata Kasar Saudiyya ta gayyaci shahararriyar mawakiyar nan ta kasar Amurka, Nicki Minaj, domin ta yi musu waka a kasar a cikin wannan watan da muka shiga.<br />
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 Kasar ta gayyaci Nicki Minaj ne domin bude musu taron wakar da Bismillah, a yayin da suke shirin gabatar da wani biki a ranar 18 ga watan Yuli, bayan ita kuma kasar ta gayyaci, DJ Steve Aoki da kuma Liam Payne.<br />
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 Bayan haka kuma kasar ta bude shafin da mutane masu son ziyara kasar wani shafi da zasu samu bisa cikin sauki. Kasar ta Saudiyya a kwanan nan ta bayyana yadda take so ta daina amfani da wasu dokoki da take amfani da su shekaru da dama.<br />
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 Shekaru 35 da suka wuce, kasar ta cire dokar zuwa gidan kallo, sannan kuma kasar ta bai wa mata damar yin tuki a wannan karon. Wannan shekarar, Mariah Carey tayi waka a kasar ta Saudiyya, kasar ta bayyana cewa hakan yana daya daga cikin yunkurin da take na ganin ta kawo cigaba. Sannan tana yin hakan ne domin jawo hankalin mutane su dinga kai ziyara kasar.<br />
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Tafa Ta Ƙare : Saudiyya ta gayyaci Nikci Minaj ta bude musu taron waka da Bismillah

Kasar Saudiyya ta gayyaci shahararriyar mawakiyar kasar Amurka Nikci Minaj, domin ta yi musu waka - Kasar ta gayyace ta ne domin gabatar da wakar a wani biki da zata gabatar ranar 18 ga watan Yuli -…

Macen Da In Mijinta Ya Sadu Da Ita Maniyyin Sa Ya Gangaro Baya ZamaA Cikin Farjinta

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Wannan matsalar tana faruwane sakamakon toshewar wasu bututu daga cikin farji, kuma suna toshewane bisa sababi Na rauni dake faruwa wajen Haihuwa ko 6ari, sannan shetanun Aljanu musamman jinnul Ashiq Na iya haddasa wannan matsalar, sannan shigar iska cikin farji ma yana da tasiri wajen faruwar wannan matsala.<br />
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Idan Farjin mace ya guntsi iska toh ko Yaya ta motsa iskar sai tayi kokarin hurowa waje, don hakane ma in aka sadu da ita sai iskar ta huro zuwa waje don haka sai iskar ta horo maniyyin da mijinta ya zuba mata sai ya fito waje.<br />
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Mafita<br />
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Ta dinga yin motsa jiki nau'in gwale-gwale (wato a turance Squatting. ta bubbude kafagunta a tsaye tana yin sama tana mikewa tana tsugunawa a tsaye amma ta dinga yin kamat sau ashirin da safe ashirin da yamma, kuma ta dinga yin sit-up shima wannan adadin.<br />
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Sannan ta hada kaninfari da yayan hulbah, da tafarnuwa, da ganyen magarya tana dafawa tana Shiga ciki, in tabi wadannan hanyoyin inshaaAllahu mniyyin zai zauna a cikin farjinta bayan jima'i.<br />
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Macen Da In Mijinta Ya Sadu Da Ita Maniyyin Sa Ya Gangaro Baya ZamaA Cikin Farjinta

Wannan matsalar tana faruwane sakamakon toshewar wasu bututu daga cikin farji, kuma suna toshewane bisa sababi Na rauni dake faruwa wajen Haihuwa ko 6ari, sannan shetanun Aljanu musamman jinnul Ashiq…

NAMIJI MAI NEMAN MATA: Abubuwan Da Ke Sa Namiji Fadawa NemanMata

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1. Wasu mazan suna fadawa neman mata ne saboda sun auri ballagaza shashashar mace, wacce bata iya zaman aure ba, wacce bata iya kissa da tarairaya ba. Wacce bata san me rayuwar aure ya kunsa ba. Ita dai kawai gatanan ne.<br />
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Babu kwalliya wa maigida, babu shafa turaruka masu kamshi da gyara fata, bata shafa mai wanda zai sa fatar ta tayi laushi, bata gyara gashin kanta, bata iya kwanciyar aure ba, bata iya shagwaba mai fisgar hankali ba, bata iya nuna kauna da soyayya ga miji ba.<br />
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Bata iya zama tayi masahira domin ya nishadantu ba.<br />
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Bata iya magana ba, bata iya kallo ba. Ita dai gata nan ne kawai. Toh kun ga mijinta baya samun abin da ya kamata ya samu a wurinta, mai yayi saura? Sai yaje ya fara biye-biyen mata idan bayi da TSORON ALLAH. Kin ga kina daya daga cikin mutanen da suka bashi gudunmuwa wurin jefashi cikin wannan musiba ta neman mata.<br />
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2. Wani kuma yana fadawa neman mata ne saboda mabukaci ne dayawa, ita kuma matar bata iya jure masa, har ya kai ga duk lokacin da zai nemeta sai anyi rigima, toh a nan idan mijinki ya bukaci kara aure, kada ki hana shi, idan kuma kika yi masifa kika tayar masa da hankali toh zai kuwa fada neman mata, kina zaune zai kawo miki tsarabar HIV/AIDS har cikin dakinki. Don haka ki kyale shi yayi aurensa don wani baya iya hakuri da mace daya.<br />
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3. Wata kuma ta iya kwalliya da kissa, da tarairaiya, da abinci, da tsabta, ta iya kwanciya da komai, amma mijinta kuma manemin mata ne, to irin wainnan sai ace jarabawace, domin irin wainnan mazan ko mata dari za'a tara musu to ba zai hana idan sun ga wata su nema ba. Domin su basu dauki aure a bakin komai ba. Ki dagye sosai da rokon Allah, sannan kada ki fasa abin da kike masa na kyautatawa, ki cigaba, da izinin Allah zai dai na wata rana.<br />
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Sannan ki rinka kokarin nuna masa illan yin hakan, misali: Kice wane Idan ni kadai bana isan kane to ni babu damuwa ka karo wata, saboda ina ji maka tsoron cuta, kuma ina jiye maka tsoron kada abin da kayi ma 'ya'yan wasu ayi ma naka.<br />
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Magana zaki yi masa cikin nutsuwa da ladabi, a kuma lokacin da kika ga ya cancanta. Ki rinka yi masa magana cikin nutsuwa da sanyin murya. Kada ki nuna masa kina fushi, kada ki nuna bacin rai. In ma zaki yi kada ya wuce kina magana kina zubar masa da kwallah na nuna bakin ciki da damuwa. Idan kina masa haka, kuma kina ribanya abubuwan da kike masa na kyautatawa. Da izinin Allah zai dai na.<br />
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Sannan Addu'a, shi zaki dagye da yi, babu dare babu rana, In Allah yarda za a wayi gari ya dai na ya dawo gareki.<br />
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Maza kuji tsoron Allah ku dai na shiga hurumin da ba naku ba, zina haramunce har ranar alkiyama, ka tausayawa kanka da matar ka, sannan ka tausayawa zuri'arka, kada su taso a neme su, a lalata maka rayuwarsu. Na tabbatar ba zaka so ba.<br />
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Allah ya kubutar da maza masu fama da wannan matsala.<br />
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 Sadeeya Lawal Abubakar.,<br />
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NAMIJI MAI NEMAN MATA: Abubuwan Da Ke Sa Namiji Fadawa NemanMata

1. Wasu mazan suna fadawa neman mata ne saboda sun auri ballagaza shashashar mace, wacce bata iya zaman aure ba, wacce bata iya kissa da tarairaya ba. Wacce bata san me rayuwar aure ya kunsa ba. Ita …

Maganin Ciwon (Koda) ,Da Yadda Ake Wanke Kodar ,Wato Kidney Stones

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<div dir="ltr">KUYI SHARE DAN ALLAH  SAURAN MUTANE SU ANFANA BAKI DAYA,</div>
<div dir="ltr">Da farko dai Koda kodar mutum takai sai anyi dashen watane, to insha Allah idan yayi anfani da wayan nan zai warke,</div>
<div dir="ltr">1- Qaro,<br />
2- Yayan Gwanda,<br />
3- Ganyen Yalon Bello,</div>
<div dir="ltr">Yadda za'a Sarrafa su,</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Za a nika Qaron ne da yayan kwanda wanda yabushe  ko a daka sosai har suyi laushi, daga nan sai a debi cikin babban cokali biyu da safe a zuba a ruwa kofi daya, sai a barshi kamar sa’a biyu ko uku har sunarke, sai a gauraya su sosai a sha da safe kafin akarya, sannan asakesha da yamma  kafin ayi barci.</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Kuma Za'a samu asalin karo na itacen karo wato (Kolkol) da yayan asalin gwanda ne, bayan mutum yasha idan zaiyi fitsari to yayi afili Dan yaga abin da yake fita,</div>
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<div dir="ltr">Sai kuma asamu gainyen yalon bello awanke shi da ruwa Mai kyau sannan atafasa shi da ruwa mai kyau  shima adinga shan Rabin kofi arana sau 2 shikuma Ganyen Yalon zai wanke kodane,</div>
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Maganin Ciwon (Koda) ,Da Yadda Ake Wanke Kodar ,Wato Kidney Stones

KUYI SHARE DAN ALLAH SAURAN MUTANE SU ANFANA BAKI DAYA, Da farko dai Koda kodar mutum takai sai anyi dashen watane, to insha Allah idan yayi anfani da wayan nan zai warke, 1- Qaro, 2- Yayan Gwanda, …

Babu sauki ko kadan mulki a kasar nan – Shugaba Buhari

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Shugaban kasa Muhammad Buhari yace akwai wahala sosai wajen gabatar da nasarorin gwamnatinsa ga yan Najeriya, inda ya daura laifin akan manyan yan Najeriya da ke sanya ra’ayin kansu a ciki.<br />
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Shugaban kasar ya bayyana hakan ne a lokacin da mambobin kungiyar Buhari Media Organisation (BMO) suka ziyarce shi a fadar shugaban kasa a ranar Talata, 2 ga watan Yuli.<br />
<i><br /></i><i>“Ba karamin aiki bane gabatar da nasarorin wannan gwamnatin. Amman dole muyi abubawa yanda ya kamata. Idan muka sha alwashin kawo canji, dole mu aikata hakan, ba tare da la’akari da bin ra’ayin wasu ba. Dole mu gabatar da manufofin barin hanyoyin baya.</i><br />
<i><br /></i><i>“Cimma wadannan alkawarin uku ya zama dole mu kai Najeriya zuwa mataki na gaba. Ina tabbatar muku da cewa na yanke shawarar sauke wadannan alkawaran. Idan muka tafi, Najeriya zata gyaru fiye da yanda muka same ta.</i><br />
<i><br /></i><i><br /></i><i>“Sako guda daya dake da muhimmanci gare ni, wanda nake bukatar ku yada, shine cewa na jajirce wajen ganin na kawo karshen kalubalen tsaro da muke fuskanta a matsayin kasa, tare da mayar da Najeriya kasa mai zaman lafiya da cigaba.”</i><br />
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A baya Legit.ng ta rahoto cewa Shugaban kasa Muhammadu Buhari ya bayyana cewa ya na bukatar gwaraza a gwamnatinsa wadanda za su tsaya su yi aiki tukuru idan har ya na so ya ga an kai kasar zuwa ga ci a mulkinsa.<br />
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A Ranar Talata 2 ga Watan Yuli, Buhari ya fadawa wasu Magoya bayansa da ke karkashin kungiyar BMO cewa tafiyarsa sai da gogaggun mukarraban da za su dafa masa domin cika alkawura.<br />
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Babu sauki ko kadan mulki a kasar nan – Shugaba Buhari

Shugaban kasa Muhammad Buhari yace akwai wahala sosai wajen gabatar da nasarorin gwamnatinsa ga yan Najeriya, inda ya daura laifin akan manyan yan Najeriya da ke sanya ra’ayin kansu a ciki. Shugaban …

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<div>ABUBUWAN DA KE SA NAMIJI FADAWA NEMAN MATA:</div>
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<div>1. Wasu mazan suna fadawa neman mata ne saboda sun auri ballagaza shashashar mace, wacce bata iya zaman aure ba, wacce bata iya kissa da tarairaya ba. Wacce bata san me rayuwar aure ya kunsa ba. Ita dai kawai gatanan ne.</div>
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<div>Babu kwalliya wa maigida, babu shafa turaruka masu kamshi da gyara fata, bata shafa mai wanda zai sa fatar ta tayi laushi, bata gyara gashin kanta, bata iya kwanciyar aure ba, bata iya shagwaba mai fisgar hankali ba, bata iya nuna kauna da soyayya ga miji ba. </div>
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<div>Bata iya zama tayi masahira domin ya nishadantu ba. </div>
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<div>Bata iya magana ba, bata iya kallo ba. Ita dai gata nan ne kawai. Toh kun ga mijinta baya samun abin da ya kamata ya samu a wurinta, mai yayi saura? Sai yaje ya fara biye-biyen mata idan bayi da TSORON ALLAH. Kin ga kina daya daga cikin mutanen da suka bashi gudunmuwa wurin jefashi cikin wannan musiba ta neman mata.</div>
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<div>2. Wani kuma yana fadawa neman mata ne saboda mabukaci ne dayawa, ita kuma matar bata iya jure masa, har ya kai ga duk lokacin da zai nemeta sai anyi rigima, toh a nan idan mijinki ya bukaci kara aure, kada ki hana shi, idan kuma kika yi masifa kika tayar masa da hankali toh zai kuwa fada neman mata, kina zaune zai kawo miki tsarabar HIV/AIDS har cikin dakinki. Don haka ki kyale shi yayi aurensa don wani baya iya hakuri da mace daya.</div>
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<div>3. Wata kuma ta iya kwalliya da kissa, da tarairaiya, da abinci, da tsabta, ta iya kwanciya da komai, amma mijinta kuma manemin mata ne, to irin wainnan sai ace jarabawace, domin irin wainnan mazan ko mata dari za'a tara musu to ba zai hana idan sun ga wata su nema ba. Domin su basu dauki aure a bakin komai ba. Ki dagye sosai da rokon Allah, sannan kada ki fasa abin da kike masa na kyautatawa, ki cigaba, da izinin Allah zai dai na wata rana.</div>
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<div>Sannan ki rinka kokarin nuna masa illan yin hakan, misali: Kice wane Idan ni kadai bana isan kane to ni babu damuwa ka karo wata, saboda ina ji maka tsoron cuta, kuma ina jiye maka tsoron kada abin da kayi ma 'ya'yan wasu ayi ma naka.</div>
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<div>Magana zaki yi masa cikin nutsuwa da ladabi, a kuma lokacin da kika ga ya cancanta. Ki rinka yi masa magana cikin nutsuwa da sanyin murya. Kada ki nuna masa kina fushi, kada ki nuna bacin rai. In ma zaki yi kada ya wuce kina magana kina zubar masa da kwallah na nuna bakin ciki da damuwa. Idan kina masa haka, kuma kina ribanya abubuwan da kike masa na kyautatawa. Da izinin Allah zai dai na.</div>
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<div>Sannan Addu'a, shi zaki dagye da yi, babu dare babu rana, In Allah yarda za a wayi gari ya dai na ya dawo gareki.</div>
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<div>Maza kuji tsoron Allah ku dai na shiga hurumin da ba naku ba, zina haramunce har ranar alkiyama, ka tausayawa kanka da matar ka, sannan ka tausayawa zuri'arka, kada su taso a neme su, a lalata maka rayuwarsu. Na tabbatar ba zaka so ba.</div>
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<div>Allah ya kubutar da maza masu fama da wannan matsala.</div>
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<div> Sadeeya Lawal Abubakar.</div>
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ABUBUWAN DA KE SA NAMIJI FADAWA NEMAN MATA: 1. Wasu mazan suna fadawa neman mata ne saboda sun auri ballagaza shashashar mace, wacce bata iya zaman aure ba, wacce bata iya kissa da tarairaya ba. Wacc…

Karin Bayani Akan Auren Da Aka Yi A Facebook - Dr Muhammad Rabiu R/Lemo

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Wasu suna cewa ai ta wakilta wani ya zamar mata waliyyi!. To ba hakkinta ba ne ta ayyana waliyinta, matukar wadanda shari'a ta ayyana suna nan, kuma ba sabanin addini aka samu ba tsakaninta da su, musulmai ne kamar yadda take musulma, kuma ma koda babu waliyyanta duk sun kare, ko sun saba a addini tsakaninta da su, ita musulma ce su kafirai ne, to shugaban musulmi shi yake da hakki ya aurar da ita. Idan kuwa babu waliyyan, kuma babu shugaban, to a nan ne wasu malamai suke ganin zata iya wakilta wani ya zamar mata waliyyi.<br />
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Sannan wani abu mai mahimmanci da ya kamata mu gane, shi ne : Walittaka ga mace hakki ne da shari'a ta tsara wadanda suke da shi, kawai dai malamai sun yi sabani akan waye za a gabatar a cikinsu, uba ne ko da, don haka ma malamai suka yi sabani idan wanda ya fi cancanta ya zama waliyyin mace yana nan, sai wanda yake bai kai shi ba ya aurar da ita, ba tare da izinin wancan ba, shin auren ya yi, ko bai yi ba, to ina ga ita macen da ba hakkinta ba ne walittakar kanta, ta ayyana wani alhali waliyyanta suna nan, basu suka ayyana shi ba, haka nan shugaban musulmi ko Alkali da yake wakiltar shugaba yana nan, ba shi ya ayyana shi ba. Don haka wannan aure bai dauru ba, sai dai abin da suka yi ba daidai ba ne, don wasa ne da addini, su tuba su nemi yafiyar Allah, don al'amuran addini ba wasa a ciki.<br />
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Amma da a ce waliyyinta ne ya aura masa, shi kuma ko wakilinsa ya karba, da niyyar za a bayar da sadaki, kuma aka samu shaidu, to aure ya dauru, basu da damar su zo su ce wasa suke yi, don ba a wasa da daurin aure. Allah ne Masani.<br />
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Karin Bayani Akan Auren Da Aka Yi A Facebook - Dr Muhammad Rabiu R/Lemo

Wasu suna cewa ai ta wakilta wani ya zamar mata waliyyi!. To ba hakkinta ba ne ta ayyana waliyinta, matukar wadanda shari'a ta ayyana suna nan, kuma ba sabanin addini aka samu ba tsakaninta da su, mu…

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<div dir="ltr">Wakili__ in cinema July 12, 2019. Sulaiman Yahya Bosho, Ali Nuhu, Hadiza Aliyu Gabon, Aminu Shariff Momo, Aisha Aliyu Tsamiya, Garzali Miko, Haraja Isah, Tijjani Asase, Rabi'u Daushe, Mustapha Nabraska, Umar Gombe, Khadija Princess, Hadiza Kabara, Ibrahim Dandolo, Nasiru Horo, zarah Muhammad, Hauwa Ayawa and Falalu A. Dorayi</div>
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Aure na iya zama abu mafi kololuwar jin dadi da walwala a rayuwar dan Adam, a wasu lokuttan kuma ya kan zama tamkar mutum na zaune a gidan yari ne wani sa'ilin ma na gidan yari yafi ka kwanciyar hankali. Hakan duk ya ta'allaka ne da waye ka aura.<br />
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A wannan zamani da mu ke ciki, aure ya zama abinda ya zama a Arewa. Yawaitar mutuwar aure kullum kara yawa ya ke. Har ta kai ana iya aure wata daya a rabu.<br />
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Akwai abubuwa masu dadi a rayuwar aure, musamman ka tuna cewa wannan na zaba a matsayin aboki ko abokiyar rayuwata. Sannan akwai kalubale da ke fuskantar aure wanda sai an taru gaba daya wajen tunkarar sa.<br />
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 Da yawa a tunanin su rayuwar aure, rayuwa ce ta jin dadi da more rayuwa na dindindin, sai dai bayan shigar su sai su iske abun ba haka bane.<br />
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Masana sun nuna cewa rayuwar aure gaba dayanta wata makaranta ce mai zaman kanta, ba wai makarantar je ka ka dawo ba, a'a makaranta ce da ba'a fita cikinta.<br />
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Akwai kura-kurai da ma'aurata kan aikata wadanda ke jawo matsaloli a rayuwar aure, wanda wasu basu dauke su a bakin komai ba, daga karshe kuma kan iya jawo mutuwar aure.<br />
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Da yawan ma'aurata ganin an kwana biyu tare, an saba da juna sai ya zama kar ta san kar ne, su kan manta da abubuwan da kan kara ma zamantakewar su armashi.<br />
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Zai zamo mace duk abinda mijinta zai yi ba za ta ga bajintar shi ba, tana ganin ai dolen shine dan haka ba ta ga abin yabawa ba. Haka ta bangaren maza ma, babu wannan yabawar tsakaninsu da matansu.<br />
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Yana da kyau komin kankantar abu da miji ko mata ta/ya yi, a yaba a kuma gode. Hakan zai kara karfafa wa mutum. Idan girki tayi, kamata yayi ka gode ma ta, tare da kwarzanta abincinta, haka bangaren kwalliya ma. Shiyasa wasu matan da sunyi aure, duk wata kwalliya sai su zubar saboda mazajensu ba sa yabawa.<br />
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Haka ta bangaren hidimar gida, ya kamata mata su rika yabawa mazajensu duk da cewa hakkinsu ne su dauki nauyin iyalansu, amma yana da kyau a gode mu su. Hakan zai kara mu su karfin gwiwa.<br />
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Mai karatu na iya duba wannan makala da ta yi karin haske wa irin halaye da yanayi da mata ke so wurin mazajensu.<br />
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Dogon buri<br />
Da yawan maza da mata kan shiga gidajen auren su da dogon buri, suna tunanin babu komai a cikin rayuwar aure face jin dadi. Sun dauka irin rayuwar fina-finai ce da abubuwa na jin dadi da suke gani. Sai dai kash, rayuwa ce mai tattare da kalubale, wata rana zuma wata rana madaci.<br />
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Dogon burin da ake shiga da shi na daga cikin manyan kura-kurai da ma'aurata ke tafkawa. Sai bayan an shiga a ga akasin abinda ake tsammani, wanda wasu idan an yi sa'a su kan yi hakuri da abinda suka iske, wasu kuwa a lokacin ne fitintinu za su yi ta bullowa.<br />
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Ya zama wajibi ga ma'aurata su cire dogon buri a rayuwar aurensu, su rungumi abinda suka tarar da hannu biyu da yaƙinin cewa canji na faruwa ne daga kan mutum, sannan daya ya yi adapting da canjin.<br />
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Kasancewar aboki ko abokiyar rayuwar da wani nakasu a rayuwa ba shi ke nuna cewa rayuwar zamantakewa ta ruguje ba. Kowane dan adam tara yake bai cika goma ba. Haka kowane rayuwar aure bai cika dari bisa dari ba, dole a samu tawaya ta wani bangaren.<br />
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Rashin hakuri<br />
Gaba daya rayuwar aure yar hakuri ce, sannan hakuri shine ribar zaman duniya.<br />
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Muna cikin wani zamani da ma'aurata kamar jiran juna su ke, kowane a wuya yake danuwarsa ya yi abu ya zama abin fada da cece-kuce.<br />
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Kowane ma'aurata suna samun sabani a tsakanin junansu, sai dai mi? Wasu kan yi kokari wajen ganin sun gano bakin zare ta hanyar warware matsalolinsu ta hanyar lumana.<br />
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Wasu kuwa a lokacin ne zage-zage, buge-buge da bakaken maganganu ke kunno kai. Daga nan sai wutar ta kara ruruwa, har ta kai ga abinda ba a so.<br />
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Wasu ma'auratan koda su ne da laifi ya kan zama abu mai matukar wahala su bude baki su bada hakuri. Daga nan sai gardama ta biyo baya. Ko dan zaman lafiya bada hakuri na kashe wutar fitina.<br />
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Mantawa da yanda za a so juna<br />
 Daga zarar anyi aure, duk soyayyar da aka tafka a baya sai ta zama tarihi. Babu sauran soyayya da an yi aure komai ya zama tarihi.<br />
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Yana daya daga cikin kura-kuran da ma'aurata ke yi, bayan aure ne ya kamata a ce soyayya ta kara karfafa, ba kafin aure ba.<br />
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Kowane bangaren mace ko namiji suna da tasu matsalolin. Duk auren da babu soyayya a cikin sa to lallai yana cikin halin rayuwa ko mutuwa.<br />
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Rayuwar aure ce ya kamata a kawata ta da duk wasu kalaman soyayya, kulawa da kyautatawa, sai dai akasin da ake samu na komi ya zama tarihi. Yana daya daga cikin kura-kurai dake kawo mutuwar aure.<br />
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Karanta makamancin wannan makala: Alamomi goma dake nuna cewa soyayya ta kare tsakanin ki da shi<br />
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Sako wasu cikin al'amuran ku<br />
Shigowa da wasu mutane cikin matsalolin aure yana daya daga cikin ababen da ke jawo matsala a rayuwar aure. Wasu ma'auratan na da dabi'ar kai kukan abokan zaman su ga wasu, wala Allah abokai ne, yan uwa ko iyaye a kan abinda bai taka kara ya karya ba.<br />
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Irin hakan na rusa aure gaba dayan shi, saboda wadanda ka kai wa karar da irin tunaninsu a kan matsalar da kuke fuskanta.<br />
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Shigowar "third party" a zamantakewa na kawo mutuwar aure.<br />
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Akwai matsalolin da zama daya za ku yi ku warware matsalarku ba tare da wani ya ji ko ya gani ba. Hakan zai taimaka wajen kawo karshen wasu matsalolin.<br />
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Ya kamata ma'aurata su koyi warware matsalolinsu a tsakanin su ba tare da sun fitar da shi waje ba. Hakan zai kara mu su kusanci a Tsakani saboda sun dau juna a matsayin abokai da za su iya zama su tattauna matsalolinsu, sannan su kuma san hanyoyin warware su ba tare da wani ko wata ya shigo cikin lamarin auren ku.<br />
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Rashin ba ma juna lokaci<br />
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Daga zarar anyi aure an fara tara iyali kowa ta kanshi yake babu wani sauran bama juna lokaci. Irin wannan ya fi faruwa ga mata, lokacinsu kacokam na yaransu ne. Miji da yayi magana za su yi korafin kula da yara da kuma aikace-aikacen gida.<br />
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Wasu mazan kuwa aikinsu ya fiye mu su zama da iyalansu har ta kai su na dawowa da aikin office gida.<br />
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Daga an gama an gaji sai bacci, babu wani lokaci da ma'auratan suka ware dan tattaunawa da kuma kara kusanci da junansu.<br />
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Hakan na saurin kashe aure, sai ka ji mata na maganar "zaman yarana nake, zaman hakuri nake".<br />
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Yanke hukunci ba tare da jin ta bakin daya bangaren ba<br />
Yarda da juna ta sa kuka aminta da junanku a karkashin inuwa daya, babban kuskure daya bangare ya yanke hukunci ba tare da jin ta bakin dayan ba. Shawara na da dadi musamman ma ga ma'aurata, ya kamata su rika shawartar junansu wajen zartar da harkokin rayuwarsu.<br />
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Hakan zai sa miji ko mata ganin an girmama su, tunda har za a nemi shawara a wajen su. Hakan na nuna tsantsar yarda da aminta da juna.<br />
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Rashin yin hakan ka iya jawo zargi ko wasiwasi a zuciyar daya, ganin kamar babu yarda a tsakani.<br />
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Rashin nuna gaskiya<br />
Wannan na daya daga cikin manyan matsalolin da ke addabar aure a wannan zamanin, duba da shigowar kafofin sada zumunta da za a samu har matan aure nayi.<br />
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Ba kowane namiji bane kan aminta matar shi ta shiga Social media ba. Haka mata ma kullum cikin zargin mazajensu suke a dalilin hakan.<br />
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Babban abinda zamantakewarsu ta rasa shine rashin gaskiya. Idan har kun gini soyayyarku akan gaskiya da wuya irin wadannan ababen su jawo maku fitina a rayuwar aurenku.<br />
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Ko ina namiji ko mace zasu kasance kowane bangare na yi wa dan uwanshi kyakkyawar zato. Rashin hakan ya kawo silar mutuwar aurarraki da dama. Duk abinda ma'aurata zasu yi, su yi shi a kan gaskiya da kuma rikon amana.<br />
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Rashin tsayawa juna<br />
A duk inda ma'aurata suke ya kamata su tsayawa junansu komin wuya komin dadi. Su zama kafadar jingina ga junansu wajen share hawayen junansu, sai dai mi? Wasu in dai matsala ko damuwa ba tasu ba ce ba, to hakan bai dame su ba, wannan halin ko in kula da su ke nunawa juna na kashe karsashin soyayya, sai ya zama idan shawara ko wata matsala suke ciki maimakon su tuntubi juna sai su kai damuwar su wani waje daban.<br />
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Mai karat una iya duba makamancin wannan makala da ta yi nazari bisa alfanu da rashin alfanun bestie a tsakanin jinsi biyu<br />
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Kwatantawa kowa muhallinsa<br />
Wasu kan yi kuskure barin kowa na tsoma baki a rayuwar aurensu. Misali mijin da zai rika bari abokan shi na tsara mi shi yanda zai tafiyar da gidanshi, ko mace kawayenta su tsara ma ta, koma iyaye su rika tsoma baki a rayuwar yaransu.<br />
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Miji ko mata dole ne ku nunawa kowanne matsayinsa a rayuwarku da irin muhimmancin da yake da shi, gudun kawo hargitsi a rayuwar aurenku.<br />
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Amma matukar aka bar kowa na tsoma baki hakan ba karamin tasiri yake wajen wargaza zaman lafiyar ma'aurata ba.<br />
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Daga karshe, za mu iya cewa wadannan suna daga cikin manyan kura-kurai da ma’aurata ke yi. Ba kuma sukenan ba. Idan akwai wasu da kuke ganin ya dace si shiga wannan lisaafi<br />
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Rashin miji ne ya hanani yin aure –Maryam Yahaya

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A wata hira da Freedom Radio tayi da jaruma Maryam Yahaya ta bayyana dalilin da ya hanata yin aure inda tace “da aure da mutuwa duk lokacine, idan lokacina yayi ai zan daga, babu mijinne, ku fito ku aureni, rashin miji ne ya hanani yin aure, kun san maza na wuya yanzu”<br />
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Jaruma Maryam Yahaya ta kara da cewa ta cimma nasarori da dama a sana’arta ta film wanda ba zasu kirgu ba, kuma babu abinda zata cewa masana’antar fina-finan hausa sai godiya, a bangaren kalubale kuwa Maryam tace babban kalubalen da ta fuskanta shine da farko iyayenta basu amince ta shiga film din ba, a lokacin da ita kuma tana matukar son ganin ta shiga, sai dai a karshe fitaccen jaruminnan Ali Nuhu yaje wurin mahaifinta ya tambayeshi sannan ya barta ta fara film<br />
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Rashin miji ne ya hanani yin aure –Maryam Yahaya

A wata hira da Freedom Radio tayi da jaruma Maryam Yahaya ta bayyana dalilin da ya hanata yin aure inda tace “da aure da mutuwa duk lokacine, idan lokacina yayi ai zan daga, babu mijinne, ku fito ku …

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Kalli Zafaffan Hotunan Nafisa Abdullahi Yar Kwalisa

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<div>Aure na iya zama abu mafi kololuwar jin dadi da walwala a rayuwar dan Adam, a wasu lokuttan kuma ya kan zama tamkar mutum na zaune a gidan yari ne wani sa'ilin ma na gidan yari yafi ka kwanciyar hankali. Hakan duk ya ta'allaka ne da waye ka aura. </div>
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<div>A wannan zamani da mu ke ciki, aure ya zama abinda ya zama a Arewa. Yawaitar mutuwar aure kullum kara yawa ya ke. Har ta kai ana iya aure wata daya a rabu. </div>
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<div>Akwai abubuwa masu dadi a rayuwar aure, musamman ka tuna cewa wannan na zaba a matsayin aboki ko abokiyar rayuwata. Sannan akwai kalubale da ke fuskantar aure wanda sai an taru gaba daya wajen tunkarar sa. </div>
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<div> Da yawa a tunanin su rayuwar aure, rayuwa ce ta jin dadi da more rayuwa na dindindin, sai dai bayan shigar su sai su iske abun ba haka bane. </div>
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<div>Masana sun nuna cewa rayuwar aure gaba dayanta wata makaranta ce mai zaman kanta, ba wai makarantar je ka ka dawo ba, a'a makaranta ce da ba'a fita cikinta. </div>
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<div>Akwai kura-kurai da ma'aurata kan aikata wadanda ke jawo matsaloli a rayuwar aure, wanda wasu basu dauke su a bakin komai ba, daga karshe kuma kan iya jawo mutuwar aure.</div>
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<div>Daukar juna ba a bakin komai ba </div>
<div>Da yawan ma'aurata ganin an kwana biyu tare, an saba da juna sai ya zama kar ta san kar ne, su kan manta da abubuwan da kan kara ma zamantakewar su armashi. </div>
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<div>Zai zamo mace duk abinda mijinta zai yi ba za ta ga bajintar shi ba, tana ganin ai dolen shine dan haka ba ta ga abin yabawa ba. Haka ta bangaren maza ma, babu wannan yabawar tsakaninsu da matansu.</div>
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<div>Yana da kyau komin kankantar abu da miji ko mata ta/ya yi, a yaba a kuma gode. Hakan zai kara karfafa wa mutum. Idan girki tayi, kamata yayi ka gode ma ta, tare da kwarzanta abincinta, haka bangaren kwalliya ma. Shiyasa wasu matan da sunyi aure, duk wata kwalliya sai su zubar saboda mazajensu ba sa yabawa. </div>
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<div>Haka ta bangaren hidimar gida, ya kamata mata su rika yabawa mazajensu duk da cewa hakkinsu ne su dauki nauyin iyalansu, amma yana da kyau a gode mu su. Hakan zai kara mu su karfin gwiwa.</div>
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<div>Mai karatu na iya duba wannan makala da ta yi karin haske wa irin halaye da yanayi da mata ke so wurin mazajensu.</div>
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<div>Dogon buri </div>
<div>Da yawan maza da mata kan shiga gidajen auren su da dogon buri, suna tunanin babu komai a cikin rayuwar aure face jin dadi. Sun dauka irin rayuwar fina-finai ce da abubuwa na jin dadi da suke gani. Sai dai kash, rayuwa ce mai tattare da kalubale, wata rana zuma wata rana madaci.</div>
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<div>Dogon burin da ake shiga da shi na daga cikin manyan kura-kurai da ma'aurata ke tafkawa. Sai bayan an shiga a ga akasin abinda ake tsammani, wanda wasu idan an yi sa'a su kan yi hakuri da abinda suka iske, wasu kuwa a lokacin ne fitintinu za su yi ta bullowa. </div>
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<div>Ya zama wajibi ga ma'aurata su cire dogon buri a rayuwar aurensu, su rungumi abinda suka tarar da hannu biyu da yaƙinin cewa canji na faruwa ne daga kan mutum, sannan daya ya yi adapting da canjin. </div>
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<div>Kasancewar aboki ko abokiyar rayuwar da wani nakasu a rayuwa ba shi ke nuna cewa rayuwar zamantakewa ta ruguje ba. Kowane dan adam tara yake bai cika goma ba. Haka kowane rayuwar aure bai cika dari bisa dari ba, dole a samu tawaya ta wani bangaren. </div>
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<div>Rashin hakuri </div>
<div>Gaba daya rayuwar aure yar hakuri ce, sannan hakuri shine ribar zaman duniya. </div>
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<div>Muna cikin wani zamani da ma'aurata kamar jiran juna su ke, kowane a wuya yake danuwarsa ya yi abu ya zama abin fada da cece-kuce. </div>
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<div>Kowane ma'aurata suna samun sabani a tsakanin junansu, sai dai mi? Wasu kan yi kokari wajen ganin sun gano bakin zare ta hanyar warware matsalolinsu ta hanyar lumana. </div>
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<div>Wasu kuwa a lokacin ne zage-zage, buge-buge da bakaken maganganu ke kunno kai. Daga nan sai wutar ta kara ruruwa, har ta kai ga abinda ba a so. </div>
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<div>Wasu ma'auratan koda su ne da laifi ya kan zama abu mai matukar wahala su bude baki su bada hakuri. Daga nan sai gardama ta biyo baya. Ko dan zaman lafiya bada hakuri na kashe wutar fitina.</div>
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<div>Mantawa da yanda za a so juna</div>
<div> Daga zarar anyi aure, duk soyayyar da aka tafka a baya sai ta zama tarihi. Babu sauran soyayya da an yi aure komai ya zama tarihi.</div>
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<div>Yana daya daga cikin kura-kuran da ma'aurata ke yi, bayan aure ne ya kamata a ce soyayya ta kara karfafa, ba kafin aure ba.</div>
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<div>Kowane bangaren mace ko namiji suna da tasu matsalolin. Duk auren da babu soyayya a cikin sa to lallai yana cikin halin rayuwa ko mutuwa.</div>
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<div>Rayuwar aure ce ya kamata a kawata ta da duk wasu kalaman soyayya, kulawa da kyautatawa, sai dai akasin da ake samu na komi ya zama tarihi. Yana daya daga cikin kura-kurai dake kawo mutuwar aure.</div>
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<div>Sako wasu cikin al'amuran ku</div>
<div>Shigowa da wasu mutane cikin matsalolin aure yana daya daga cikin ababen da ke jawo matsala a rayuwar aure. Wasu ma'auratan na da dabi'ar kai kukan abokan zaman su ga wasu, wala Allah abokai ne, yan uwa ko iyaye a kan abinda bai taka kara ya karya ba.</div>
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<div>Irin hakan na rusa aure gaba dayan shi, saboda wadanda ka kai wa karar da irin tunaninsu a kan matsalar da kuke fuskanta.</div>
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<div>Shigowar "third party" a zamantakewa na kawo mutuwar aure.</div>
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<div>Akwai matsalolin da zama daya za ku yi ku warware matsalarku ba tare da wani ya ji ko ya gani ba. Hakan zai taimaka wajen kawo karshen wasu matsalolin.</div>
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<div>Ya kamata ma'aurata su koyi warware matsalolinsu a tsakanin su ba tare da sun fitar da shi waje ba. Hakan zai kara mu su kusanci a Tsakani saboda sun dau juna a matsayin abokai da za su iya zama su tattauna matsalolinsu, sannan su kuma san hanyoyin warware su ba tare da wani ko wata ya shigo cikin lamarin auren ku.</div>
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<div>Rashin ba ma juna lokaci </div>
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<div>Daga zarar anyi aure an fara tara iyali kowa ta kanshi yake babu wani sauran bama juna lokaci. Irin wannan ya fi faruwa ga mata, lokacinsu kacokam na yaransu ne. Miji da yayi magana za su yi korafin kula da yara da kuma aikace-aikacen gida.</div>
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<div>Wasu mazan kuwa aikinsu ya fiye mu su zama da iyalansu har ta kai su na dawowa da aikin office gida.</div>
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<div>Daga an gama an gaji sai bacci, babu wani lokaci da ma'auratan suka ware dan tattaunawa da kuma kara kusanci da junansu.</div>
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<div>Hakan na saurin kashe aure, sai ka ji mata na maganar "zaman yarana nake, zaman hakuri nake".</div>
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<div>Yanke hukunci ba tare da jin ta bakin daya bangaren ba</div>
<div>Yarda da juna ta sa kuka aminta da junanku a karkashin inuwa daya, babban kuskure daya bangare ya yanke hukunci ba tare da jin ta bakin dayan ba. Shawara na da dadi musamman ma ga ma'aurata, ya kamata su rika shawartar junansu wajen zartar da harkokin rayuwarsu.</div>
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<div>Hakan zai sa miji ko mata ganin an girmama su, tunda har za a nemi shawara a wajen su. Hakan na nuna tsantsar yarda da aminta da juna.</div>
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<div>Rashin yin hakan ka iya jawo zargi ko wasiwasi a zuciyar daya, ganin kamar babu yarda a tsakani.</div>
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<div>Rashin nuna gaskiya</div>
<div>Wannan na daya daga cikin manyan matsalolin da ke addabar aure a wannan zamanin, duba da shigowar kafofin sada zumunta da za a samu har matan aure nayi.</div>
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<div>Ba kowane namiji bane kan aminta matar shi ta shiga Social media ba. Haka mata ma kullum cikin zargin mazajensu suke a dalilin hakan.</div>
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<div>Babban abinda zamantakewarsu ta rasa shine rashin gaskiya. Idan har kun gini soyayyarku akan gaskiya da wuya irin wadannan ababen su jawo maku fitina a rayuwar aurenku.</div>
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<div>Ko ina namiji ko mace zasu kasance kowane bangare na yi wa dan uwanshi kyakkyawar zato. Rashin hakan ya kawo silar mutuwar aurarraki da dama. Duk abinda ma'aurata zasu yi, su yi shi a kan gaskiya da kuma rikon amana.</div>
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<div>Rashin tsayawa juna</div>
<div>A duk inda ma'aurata suke ya kamata su tsayawa junansu komin wuya komin dadi. Su zama kafadar jingina ga junansu wajen share hawayen junansu, sai dai mi? Wasu in dai matsala ko damuwa ba tasu ba ce ba, to hakan bai dame su ba, wannan halin ko in kula da su ke nunawa juna na kashe karsashin soyayya, sai ya zama idan shawara ko wata matsala suke ciki maimakon su tuntubi juna sai su kai damuwar su wani waje daban.</div>
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<div>Kwatantawa kowa muhallinsa</div>
<div>Wasu kan yi kuskure barin kowa na tsoma baki a rayuwar aurensu. Misali mijin da zai rika bari abokan shi na tsara mi shi yanda zai tafiyar da gidanshi, ko mace kawayenta su tsara ma ta, koma iyaye su rika tsoma baki a rayuwar yaransu.</div>
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<div>Miji ko mata dole ne ku nunawa kowanne matsayinsa a rayuwarku da irin muhimmancin da yake da shi, gudun kawo hargitsi a rayuwar aurenku.</div>
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<div>Amma matukar aka bar kowa na tsoma baki hakan ba karamin tasiri yake wajen wargaza zaman lafiyar ma'aurata ba.</div>
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<div>Daga karshe, za mu iya cewa wadannan suna daga cikin manyan kura-kurai da ma’aurata ke yi. Ba kuma sukenan ba. Idan akwai wasu da kuke ganin ya dace si shiga wannan lisaafi</div>
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